Sexual question?

Question

My husband wants me to call him daddy during s*x...is this normal or should I be worried! We have been married for 4 years and he just now mentioned it to me.

Answer 1

Don't knock it till you try it. Then tomorrow you can be the mommy, nurse, teacher, or whatever you want.

Answer 2

I don't think you have to worry.  I don't think he wants to be your DADDY.  I just think it is something that he thinks makes him the mature one in this sexual relationship.  Maybe making you nondomineering.  He wants you to succumb to him sexually without any sense of forcefulness.  You have been married to the man for 4 years, have you not asked him why??  If this makes you feel uncomfortable, ask him about it before you do it.  No one should be made feel uncomfortable in their sexual relationship with their own husband.  Of course this is only my personal opinion.  I think the reason he waited so long to ask you to do this was because he was afraid you would have questions,  and he may be able to answer your questions now.

Answer 3

I believe what others before me have said, "He's looking for you to spice it up."  A lot of people call their men "daddy" or "papi" during s*x.  That's normal for them.  I, personally, would never do that.  I don't think "daddy" is a word to corrupt, just because I hold my father with such high regard.  Others may not see it that way, which absolutely fine.  

To each his own.

Answer 4

this is the answer for you

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Answer 5

Well, Im not really sure about this, but it really sounds a lil creepy to me. But I have heard of people doing stuff like that just to change up/spice up things.

Answer 6

I have been married to the same girl for 39 years and never made such a request. Normal? Not for me, but who am I to say?

Answer 7

hes just letting you in on one of the things that turns him on.  its totally normal no worries!

Answer 8

Well, lots of people get into that.  If it makes you really uncomfortable, tell him so.  He might just be looking for ways in which to spice up your love life.  Find out things that you can do differently that you do like, and propose those to him, or just go ahead.  Guys often like it when we take the initiative.  I wouldn't worry too much just yet.  Unless he starts really pushing LOTS of other things...

Answer 9

If it makes you feel uncomfortable, ask him to stop requesting that you imply you would like to have s*x with your father. Ask him if he will call you "Mommy" during s*x...that will change his tune.

Answer 10

he wants a change because you two have had s*x for 4 years.  wigs will help him get sexually active too if you are looking for hanky panky