Sexuality?

Question

I know Ive been asking this many times. I just cant get by it. How can a same s*x childhood sexual experience that I enjoyed not effect my sexual orientation. (I am straight at this moment).

Answer 1

calm down

and breathe

do you get turned on seeing guys?

it's JUST that simple

Answer 2

Because it doesn't.  Sexual orientation is apparently something we're born with.  But s*x feels good, and it's natural for a child to enjoy the companionship of other children of the same s*x, and you put the two together and you get an enjoyable same-s*x sexual encounter.  Men in prison for extended terms tend to have s*x with other men just because there aren't any other options, but they still go back to women once their released.  Most children, boys especially, have s*x with their friends around puberty, but 90% go on to having boy-girl relationships, the same ration as those who never had a same-s*x encounter.

If it helps, it's not always a matter of being exclusively straight or exclusively g*y--most people are somewhere in the middle.  You can be one and still enjoy the other, at least sometimes, with the right person, under the right circumstances.

Time to stop obsessing and start seeing a therapist to find out what's really going on.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

maybe at the time you didn't know that it was a sexual thing so it didn't really matter.

if you did it now it would be a different story because you actually know what you're doing.

Answer 5

If you identify as straight, it means that what you did as a kid was just typical "normal c**p that all kids do" stuff. You were probably just messing around and you didn't think "OOO you're hot, I wanna have s*x with you", it's just a "I wonder what this does" thing.