Sexually Confused. Please Help..

Question

I am 14, and lately I have been really depressed. It started a month ago and has just gotten worse. I am just really questioning my sexuality. Sometimes if I see a guy without a shirt on that is big and muscly I get aroused by it. But when I see a guys genitals I get grossed out. I know I get aroused by girls because if I see someone in a bikini with a nice body I get really aroused. And if I get a naked girl I get even more aroused. I am just really confused and its really been bothering me.

I sometimes go into my room and just cry/pray about it for a really long time just hoping that god will give me an answer. I really do not want to be homosexual. Is it normal for boys my age to become sexually confused? I am to embarrassed to talk to anyone about it. Someone please give me answers...

Answer 1

Yes, that's normal. You're just exploring your sexuality and new feelings.

You'll grow out of it, don't stress about it!

Answer 2

wow same here

but i'm a chick! lol. uhm idk how to help you cause i don't even know how to help myself... :| but i dont think thats g*y.. hm wow my answer was no help! hah. but im just hear saying i feel for you because its the same here!! and when i tell my friends they don't take  me seriously.. i wouldnt tell my friends if i were you thouhg [idk it's different for a guy to be confused] other guys freak out.

Answer 3

Trust me, it's a normal thing for your age. You are definitely not a homosexual, this a normal thing that you have to enjoy.

Answer 4

It is normal, i was lyke that when i was younger, it was just a phase.

But if you lyke boys thats normal, just be honest with yourself.

Answer 5

it's ok sweetie be who you wanna be with f wut everyone else thinks it doesn't hurt to expirement lol

Answer 6

yes, its very normal. boys your age are always confused. and like, girls we experiment. and that's normal. and guys do that too. which is normal. and like the first answerer said, if you are g*y. whatever. You can love whoever you want.  

Answer 7

it's normal ... 14 i was grossed at male parts too to i mean maybe in a few years you might learn to like them or not so grossed out.

Answer 8

Listen, it's perfectly normal. Everyone goes through some level of sexual confusion, some more than others. Most people (straight men especially) will not admit it but they do.

It sound to me you're more straight than anything else but even if you're g*y, it's not the end of the world. Hang in there!

Answer 9

Don't worry, it's normal.

I'm a girl, and I find the female body very attractive (and it can definitely turn me on), but I'm straight as can be!  

It's just one human body admiring another, and there is nothing weird or wrong about that.

And hey, even if you were g*y, that's OK too!!

Answer 10

Of course its normal,, you can get aroused by seeing someone of the same gender's body and still be straight. It's probably just a phase that'll pass

:)

Answer 11

You could be Bi but you are probably just going through a phase

But whatever sexuality you are it doesnt matter cuz everyone should get treated equally no matter what sexuality or race they are + im sure family and friends will still be there for you whatever happends.  

Answer 12

your not g*y. its probably a phase. you seem to be more interested in females then men. its just a man with no shirt on .  

Answer 13

Soooooo Normal!! My brother just turned 16 and he told my mom the samething was happening to him and my mom is a nurse and she told him is completely normal and he should grow out of it. Just tell either mom or dad and they will tell you the same thing :]

Hope i helped

Answer 14

g*y guys are pretty s**y, you should become g*y

Answer 15

Don't worry you are very normal. At your age the hormones are swirling around your body and you will get excited at even random times. The fact that girls excite you also indicates you are probably straight. Do not worry at all about this. You are totally normal in my opinion.

Answer 16

This is all perfectly normal at your age.  You will sort it all out.  You have time.  Once you start to date girls you will know if your attracted to them or not.   Just be patient, your just 14 and got lots of time to figure it out.  

Answer 17

DEFINETLY normal. You probobly just see the guy and are like "d**n, he's nice looking, i want to look like that"

if your g*y, whatever, love is love.  

Answer 18

man it's tottally normal to question your sexuallity. It sounds to me that you like girls, so I  wouldnt worry about

BUT, it you are g*y, so what? Your family and your friends will still love you, and if they don't, the aren't your friends