Shall I leave if he marries?

Question

I'm in love with a guy, from the bottom of my heart. Before I met him, I never believed that I can love a person even only giving out. He's in love with me, deeply. But he doesn't wanna show. His family is so religious that he has to marry a girl from the same religion. Even if he doesn't like the girl, he can marry her, just for his family. This is ridiculous, but true. I don't know what to do. Leaving him, my heart will die. It will take almost my whole life to forget this love.

Answer 1

thats really tough.

He should do what he wants to do, no matter what his family thinks.

so what i'm saying is he should be with you, no matter what. if thats what he really wants.

its hard to say what you should do though, because if your still with him when he's married, its not like hes cheating on his wife? i dont know...this is a really hard situation.

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Answer 2

You don't have a choice unless you want to spend your life crying every night because he is married having kids and sleeping next to his wife while you are alone for no reason.

Answer 3

This is a joke right?

Answer 4

You are dealing with a culture that you cannot break into. He will marry the person his family has chosen and that will be that. Best leave that one alone. You will never change the tradition of his family, and neither will he.  

Answer 5

Sounds like his parents have his life all planned out.

Would you really want a man that will not stick up for what he believes in. I understand that his religion is very important to him, you are not asking him to turn his back on his religion, you are asking him to stand up for his own happiness, nothing wrong with that.

If he can't stand up for himself how would he be able to stand up for you?

It is time you moved on find someone that is willing to stand up for them selfs, it is & will be very hard for you to do, if you do not you will end up being old, alone & bitter.

Answer 6

It's all up to him.  If he wants to honor his culture and his family then you have to move on.  Nothing you can do to change that.  Leave him now before he gets married