Shall I send him a sorry email?

Question

I started to develop feelings for a guy friend recently and I pushed him away; I told him not to contact me again without explaining why. Shall I send him an apology note?

He's married btw.

Answer 1

leave him alone.

don't just think about yourself.

just think about what will happen when his wife finds out about you guys.

it will cause chaos and just think of all the guilt you will have, about hurting her and stuff.

oh and your probably going to be known as the s**t if anyone finds out. yeah.  

Answer 2

sound advvice dont go there itll only end blowing up in your face be his friend again but try to look at other people

Answer 3

if hes a good friend yes contact him and tell him you want to stay FRIENDS nothing else he is married if you feel like you cant contain yourself then better off just leaving well enough alone good luck!!

Answer 4

  hes married,no leave  it alone. If he doesn't feel the same way you did he probably laughed it off & doesn't care. Don't set your self up for a big let down. You shouldn't  be flirting with married men anyway.

Answer 5

an apology email would be good,yet he is married. with respect its good for an apology but not good to break up a household.  

Answer 6

BTW he is married ..

Leave him alone, try to develope feelings next time for a single guy.

Answer 7

I was going to write yes send him an email however because he is married I would say you did the right thing and leave well enough alone.  You are looking for trouble and believe me you will find it.  Sure you may have some heart pounding fun along the way however in the end your heart will be crushed and the time years months weeks you spent cultivating a relationship from an empty well you will not be able to get back.  I had a fm family friend do this it is not worth it.

DFF

Answer 8

No, don't go there.  Nothing good can happen from rekindling a relationship with a MARRIED man that you still have feelings for.

Answer 9

I don't think so. You did the right thing by pushing him away because you were starting to cross the boundaries of friendship and perhaps he might have as well. I don't think you want to hurt thier marriage at all.

I think a part of you is also looking for excuses to talk to him again, keep the contact in order to keep your flame for him alive. Soon you'll also be needing to write to him for any little reason. Don't fall into this trap, let it go.

Please allow him to focus on his marriage and be happy. You also need to find your own happiness without ruining someone else's.

Answer 10

send a email it is the right thing to do. just go back to being friends give up on him hes takin. its better to have him as a friend than not have him at all

Answer 11

Sending an e-mail to a married man is a very bad idea. My wife and I share an e-mail address; can you imagine his wife opening that e-mail instead of him? That will end badly.

Being single and hanging out with married people is difficult for most people, and there is a reason for that. Stick to the singles scene. Forget about this guy. There are millions of other men out there waiting for a woman to talk to them.

Answer 12

my advice is to get over him! if hes married then you have no chance with him, and if you do (meaning he wants to cheat on his wife) then i wouldnt get involved in that because it will end up in a HIGE mess!

so no dont even bother with apology emails!

Answer 13

Why do you guys do that exactly? It really confuses us =\