Shall I tell my teacher I have feelings for him?

Question

I have feelings for my history teacher, he is 33 and i am 14, i want to tell him how i feel but i dunno how.

Answer 1

Don't do it. He's like 20 years older than you and if for some reason he had feelings for you back then he could get in serious trouble.

Answer 2

well here's the thing...i'm best friends with my choir teacher(32) and i'm as well 14. he's the **** and i'm gonna tell you straight up telling your history teacher you like him could be either a great thing...or a bad thing. if you have the friendship me and my teacher have, hey why the h**l not. but if he's just a guy that you walk into class everyday and say hey what's up i recommend not saying anything about it to him.

Answer 3

No for both your sakes again! He could get in severe trouble and lose his job if you had a relationship. You could be treated as a s**t by classmates and get your feelings hurt if he does not like you.

If you like him, please do not say anything and let him keep his job and not be in an akward position!

Answer 4

Best thing to do is tell your parents that you have feelings for your teacher.

Answer 5

NO!!!! Please, please don't.

First of all, you could both get in trouble [especially him] if something happened between you two.

Second of all, he's WAY to old for you and he's your TEACHER!

Answer 6

1. It's illegal

2. You shouldn't be suprised if he called your parents the same day.

3. Most of the teachers get married at age 30-40. Watch it.

DON'T.

Answer 7

I hope you haven't told anyone at school about your feelings. All it takes is a rumor and he won't have a teaching job there or anywhere else, even if nothing ever happened w/ you two.

Answer 8

No.

You'll embarrass yourself and make him uncomfortable.

Answer 9

DON'T DO IT!!!!! YOU CAN PUT BOTH OF YOUR PLACES AT THAT SCHOOL IN JEOPARDY!!!!! THAT IS SOMETHING YOU JUST NEED TO LEAVE ALONE!!!

Answer 10

I dont think that would really be acceptable because he is a teacher an 33 years of age. I think you would be most comfortable dating a younger guy your age!! Hope this helps... Good Luck.

Answer 11

DO NOT DO IT! Trust me, things will not go the way you think they will.  Things will be awkward and uncomfortable between you two and you will more then likely get your heart ripped out.

Answer 12

This is just a crush. It is perfectly normal for people your age to have meaningless crushes, but that is all it is. Don't tell him. He wouldn't feel the same about you.He will be embarrassed and it would put him in a weird situation if you tell him. Just leave it to run it's course.

Good Luck

Answer 13

this is a crush. um you will think that you love many and many will be older. don't do anything. its a phase. by the time you are maybe a junior or senior in high school you will see that it was just a phase. Both of you could get into a lot of trouble and it wont be worth it. If you want to date date someone around your age.  Try to get your class schedule changed. For both of your safety dont do anything or say anything. Let's suppose you say something and you date then he will get locked up for at least 10 yrs. what if he has a family already? what would that do to them? Just dont do anything. I think that you should get your class changed.

when i was your age i always had a crush on someone different every month. i never acted on any of those crush feelings. But think about this he is 33 and you are only 14. you have a lifetime ahead of you. you will meet the right person for you.

Answer 14

HAHAHAHHAHA ,

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

Answer 15

what you have dear is called a crush. It will pass, therefore do not say a word. For crying out loud, he is more than half your age. Get over it cause nothing will come of it, not unless the teacher wants to lose his job and end up in prison.

Answer 16

noooo. dont do that.

first of all, hun you can't date your teacher. this is just a phase, i think all of us have had teachers we thought were cute or fascinating, but lets think about it. Its wrong, so no. just keep it to yourself.

you have lots of time to find a great man :)

Answer 17

haha no thats really REALLY bad for business

1.he rejects u and u feel akward the whole year

2.he accepts u and u will b fouund out huge scandall will ensue he will go to jail for 30 years get raped by huge jail men and u will have ruined his life

3.its jsut infatuation but ur not aware of that

but i hope for both of ur sakes u dont try to act on this it will only be 100% bad trust me

Answer 18

its fatherly figure crush, and oh yeah how can i say this the best way NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO...

Answer 19

Don't.

You guys [especially him] would get in alott of trouble if something happened between you two.

It's not worth it, just find someone closer to your own age.

Answer 20

do you have any idea how uncomfortable you will make your teacher feel? oh goodness! i can't imagine.

No, don't tell him, its a crush and will pass!

Answer 21

Absolutely NOT!!!!!!!!  These "feelings" will pass, they are just admiration for someone older who, you think, is paying special attention to you.   Expressing your "feelings" for him will put him in a very bad position, because if you were to act on them, even if he did not, he could lose his job and perhaps go to prison.

Answer 22

this isn't uncommon, and the feelings you have are definetly conflicted, no only because of your age, but because teachers aren't allowed to date, or socially see students. or even other staff members, unless it is an organized school event..It would also be unwise for you to get attatched to a man that much older, let alone a teacher. date people around your own age.

Answer 23

Not a good idea! He's almost 20 years older than you! (19 to be exact). Do not tell him your feelings about this and keep your relationship with him strictly teacher and student!

Answer 24

um, don't?

it won't get you anywhere but counseling, my friend.

just try and suppress it, or talk to a friend to help you out of it.

Answer 25

You should tell him.

But then again you shouldnt.

You should because: Its always good to have people know how you feel about them especially in that way. and he might think its cute.

You shouldn't because: he might take it as a joke, and you might end up really embarrassed.

But if you decide to, this is how you should bring it up: Mr._____  i need to talk to you but promise not take it as a joke. and tell him..blah blah.

also get him by himself.

Good luck :]

Hope i helped.

Answer 26

No.

Firstly, it will make him unbelievably uncomfortable and he will avoid you.

Secondly, there will be no point. Any relationship would be illegal and he would lose his job and be sent to jail. End of.

Consider it a little crush, everyone has one. But leave it there.

Answer 27

I think you should tell a friend, or parent first. You could ask an aggony aunt even (Can be found in Magazines/Papers). Do not contact him directly.

Answer 28

LMAO!!! LMAO!!!!

LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... to the 100th power

no

Answer 29

Don't do it! He will be really wierded out and he legally has to report it to your school officials. How embarassing for you!

Answer 30

NO NO NO NO NO NO.  It is normal for a child your age to have a crush on a teacher, coach, friend's parent, etc.  It will pass with time and there is no need to embarrass yourself or risk getting the teacher into trouble over it.

Answer 31

Ewww gross girl no!!!!!!!!!!!! Chill the heck out with that. What do you really think will happen if you tell him this??? That is  something that you need to keep to yourself. Maybe try getting your schedule changed so you don't have to be around him. Maybe also try talking to your parents about this.