Shall I trust a guy whom I met online 4months back & wanna marry me?

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Shall I trust a guy whom I met online 4months back & wanna marry me?

Question Details: I met a guy online 4months back. we had a gud frdshp sinnce last 3-4 months & now I m committed with him. He use to call me 7-8times a day. We use to chat on phone for more then 4hrs and a day. We use to chat online for more then 2hrs a day.We use to meet each other on cam once a week

His family members are aware of our relationship. I spoke to his mumma, even she is agreed for our marriage. As far as I m concerned he is a gud frd, a gud human being and a gud mate too. I have even disclosed my past to him and he has no issue regarding it. He wants to marry me after one year cuase he is still studying and doing job side by side. I spoke to his elder sister too and she loves me a lot and is happy with our relationship. He is mad about me and even sometime cries for me if I m busy or ***** attend his phone.

Now he want me to meet his elder brother & sister in law who stays here only & also aware

Answer 1

He sounds like an absolute nightmare!  He has low self-esteem as demonstrated in his clingy and over-emotional behaviour.  Lay down some ground rules regarding contact.  BE CAREFUL!

Answer 2

not if i were you. move in together, see what hes like. get to know his ways, then decide. don't rush anything it'll only end in tears. good luck

Answer 3

Gee.. It's great to have such a good friend but you should see him face to face first. If he's still in college he's still pretty young and this could be an impulsive deciscion from his side.

Answer 4

nope

Answer 5

frist you need to stay in school they have spell check so i know  you need to learn how to spell me i think it is wrong

Answer 6

Hello,             Do what you heart tells you. Marriage is like buying a car you wont know till you try it. better to have loved than not at all. I wish both of you heath and happiness I'm raising my cup of tea cheers.

Answer 7

What is missing from this is, do you love him?. From what I have read, the answer is no.

You sound young and impressionable and I suspect he is an immigrant looking for entry to your country.

Listen to your inner voice, it is telling you the truth.

Answer 8

Of course not!, why would you do that?, the guy might be a nutcase, he can use you for whatever you got. how do you know what he is like, when he is behind closed doors. NNNNNOOOOOOO!!!!

Answer 9

Hi.

So have you never met him then in the past 3-4 months?? If thats the case then I would stongly advise that you to spend alot more time with him in person before you make such  a HUGE decision.

Obviously you already feel close which is Fab... And You're aware that there is a connection between the 2 of you...

Just spend some quality time together to see if the two of you make a good couple in Person...Try Living together first because I think you'll find that you may only have scratched the Surface....l

Whatever you do I wish you all the best!

Answer 10

oh please, read your question again and ask yourself are you serious, I dont mean to poke fun but you sound very immature, did you do this for a laugh, go on did you

Answer 11

dont rush into anything.

Answer 12

Doesn't sound like you love him, he might be a good mate but that's not all you need in a husband. Have you even met him face to face, seems like your on the phone all the time, you need to get to know him properly before you make any commitments.

Answer 13

Take it slow.  Let the personal relationship build, and then decide.

Answer 14

Go away with him for a week or two,then take time to decide but dont rush into anything.

Answer 15

To be honest with you don't do it, it does not seem normal for the family  wanting to meet you , I have never heart about some family coming to visit . have you ever met the man  or seen him or the family, anything that seems to good to be true is usually not good , how do you know if they are Gypsies, or going to rob you or even move everyone to your place. Never put 100% ffaith in any one you are making room to be let down, I'm worried about your safety. I'm not trying to put a damper on your relationship you do what you want but with caution ,I have never ever heart of a man being on the phone that long, to me something smells fishy to me are you that desperate, any man that calls 7 or 8 times a day is not normal , no sane person would do that, either they have been in jail or an Insitution of the mentally ill ,girl i dont know you but im concern for your safety.

Answer 16

No..... He may be sincere, but people only show their good side, until you get to know them properly.

Answer 17

You need to slow down!  How old are you?  You really dont know this person at all. Youve never met him in person. He could be telling you anything. Even if you had met him in person, three months is nowhere near long enough to truly get to know someone.You sound very young, so you have a lifetime to get to know somebody. You want to be sure you arent making a mistake.

Answer 18

you can never know someone properly until you meet them. and spend time with them physically. if you decide to meet up get a coffee in a public place or something. where its safe. i understand what you are saying but...give it some time.