BF wants to change career path but he's been looking around for three years and hasn't found the dream job. Tons of applications only 2 unsuccessful interviews in past 3 years. I know he needs to go back to school to get a master degree in his dream industry to give his job hunting a boost. but he always says he can't quit the current job because he needs the money. But he can't go to school while working full time, either. I told him if we get married, I can get a better paid job (because of immigration rules) and I will support him so he can go back to school. He says no. He says if he finds the dream job, or I can find a better paid job (hard for me to do without marrying him and becoming a permanent resident), we will move in together. Then if I can tolerate him, we can get married. I looked up many jobs that I have a good shot, but they require US citizen or permanent resident only. Looks like he won't find his dream job too soon. And I can't find a better paid job without marrying him. I feel like my life is on hold because of his unrealistic career change desire. Or he is just making excuses, or thinks that I am not making enough money and will not be able to make enough money even after marrying him, so he doesn't want to take the risk? We've been dating for 3 years and he is 30 and I am 29. Shall I wait?
PS: his annual income before tax is about 65K, and mine is 35K. How much financial stability do you need to get into a marriage?
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