Shall i do what i want now i know he's cheated?

Question

I believe my boyfriend is cheating on me,i have found pics on his hpone of girls lying on his bed and the dates are when he was with me,i've also found messages,i'm going on holiday tomorrow,shall i just go have a good time and snog as many blokes as i want?

Answer 1

I wouldn't necessary suggest lowering yourself to that. But confront him, if he can't explain dump him then go on holiday guilt free and have fun.

Answer 2

if i were in your shoes ' i would dump him before you go .

Answer 3

A: See question above yours in the listing as to "What to put in a blender?"

Or Print the photos from the phone out, send them to the girls in question stating that this lying cheat cannot be trusted.

Don't get yourself labelled as a slag just to get overhim, but by all means dump him then go on holiday as a newly single female and do whatever your conscience will let you.

Have a great time and forget the loser.

Answer 4

dump him but do not go around snoging guys as they will start to think u are a possible s**t lol

Answer 5

By all means go and do whatever you like on holiday - but dump the cheating idiot first, or you will be no better than he is.  He's going to HATE the idea of you having dumped him then going straight on holiday - that's punishment enough.

Answer 6

Yeh!

Text him whilst u are away saying, im having the time of my life without u!

that is the best way to get rid of him and have a good time..

but ur only going to come home and feel rubish.

Answer 7

You need to decide if you still want to be with him or not.By cheating on him it will give you a certain level of satisfaction with the revenge factor but that will do nothing more than to bring you down to his level.Enjoy your holiday and this will give you time to think about what you should do next.

Answer 8

You shoud do what you want & what feels right & be prepared to deal with the consequences if you know they're morally wrong!

Two wrongs don't make a right, but I wouldn't pass up a hottie for your bf, he sounds like a div

Answer 9

D-D-D-D- DUmp!!

Answer 10

Yeah!!!! Dump him, and enjoy yourself lady!

Answer 11

2 right!! u enjoy your self, kiss as many boys as u want, be carefull tho like not to let them take advantage and always stay with mates! and pleeeeeeeeeeeeease dump him! hes a dirty rat u can and deserve so much more than this. You should never let anyone treat u like dirt.

Good luck, and make sure u have a wicked holiday!! :) x x x x  

Answer 12

Hi it depends if thats what makes you feel better, if its gonna make you feel worse dont do it and try and meet a nice bloke whist on holiday as the ones that you are planning on going with will proabably just be like your boyfriend and you are just punishing yourself really.

I would deffinalty let your boyfriend know you know he is cheating as he should be getting away with it, then finish with him he sounds like a creep.  

Answer 13

First decide if you want to be with him.  I would suggest you dump him first.  Do have a good time but don't cheat unless you have broken up first.  Just cause he did it doesn't mean you should sink as low.

Answer 14

Yes go and enjoy yourself and send him a photo of a hunk on your bed.

Then when you get back.Come and see me.