She's either proper annoying or i'm selfish?

Question

This girl i know,she's suppose to be my friend.

But she just whines all the time,it fully drives me up the wall.

She's been single for 2 years and she just goes on and on,saying she'll never find anyone and it's alright for me i have Jordan bla bla bla.

I have mine own issues you know? I try and talk to her about them because it's what friends do,help each other out,but she just goes off on one saying i'm selfish and then launching into her problems again.It never ends seriously,she's either "depressed" because she's single,openly saying she's jealous of my relationship,or other stuff about how bad her life supposedly is - she's only 18 i mean come on talk about pessimist.

She's on msn right now to me and seriously,i'm about to snap.

I know i should be there for her,and trust me i am,but it's all the time it's just constant.

Maybe i should just shut up and put up?

I feel kind of harsh,it just winds me up :l

Answer 1

Maybe she just doesn't deserve a good friend like you:)  don't feel like you are letting down a friend when she needs you. as i can understand, she doesn't even have a real problem, she just likes complaining and thinks everything in her life is the most important thing in the world. Does she call you when she is having fun too? Try to put some distance between yourselves, don't listen to her or just give short answers. As i said you are a good friend and she can never afford to lose you.  

Answer 2

I am sure she is annoying. Anyone who takes up all your time going on about their miserable little life and no concern for what you may be experiencing is the selfish one and maybe not a true friend.

Answer 3

DUDE OMG, i absolutely HATE people who do that. it drives me nuts too! don't worry, your not selfish, your friends the one who's selfish. you just got to talk to her about it.

tell her that you have your problems too, and your really sorry about her problems, but you've got to have some time and breath. so when she calls to complain or whatever, just talk to her for 5 minutes and say you've got to go, and dont reply to the emails or IM messages. dont completely shut her out forever, but just enough time to breath.

hope i helped - nataliee

Answer 4

Thanks for being my fan, I am so happy! Forget about her you have me now. :-) i shall look after you. But yeah you get annoying ppl like that, just dont go on msn as much and try to avoid her. She wastes your time.