She's mean to my boyfriend!?

Question

I have this friend who is extraordinarily mean to the guy I'm with. She says he is annoying, stupid & blames him for ruining her school year. I know for a fact she doesn't like him so please don't answer with "she probably likes him". It hurts me when she is mean to him but every time I talk to her about it she just says "can you blame me?"

How do I make her stop??

Answer 1

Maybe she's jealous that you're spending more time with him and that she has to share you. My best friend had a boyfriend that none of her other friends liked because they blamed him for "stealing" her away from them.  

Answer 2

i know you said not to answer with this but ima do it anyways cause she problaby does likes him...listen talk to her and if she says can you blame me say yes i can and tell her she's really annoying you and it has to stop...

Answer 3

Just tell her if she cant treat him as a friend you wont treat her as a friend.

Answer 4

ok i have a friend that flirts w/ friends boyfriends so annoying tell her to back off leave me and (your boy) alone tell her "if you don't like him then just ignore us" if she was really your friend then she will back off.

Answer 5

Oh my gosh, I went through the SAME situation!

Your friend is jealous.

You probably don't believe it, but its true.

You need to talk to her and ask her why she is saying those things about your boyfriend. And if shes a true friend, she will respect the people around you & ecspecially you.

Just nicely tell her to stop and tell her to keep her nasty comments to herself.

If she doesn't, then shes no good. Your better off without her.

Remember, shes jealous.

Answer 6

I am sorry dear but she does and that is the reason he is so annoying to her.  She might not realize she likes him.  Her attitude comes from the fact that he is with you and she is jealous.  She can't take her frustrations out on you so she takes it out on him.  Keep them apart. Most of the time when its like that the two people mostly have sexual tension between them and it is hard to ignore so they don't get along because there is nothing they can do about it.  If you don't realize this then you are naive.

Why do you have your best friend around your man? That is a recipe for disaster anyway if she doesn't like him.

Answer 7

well its her choice if she doesn't like him. Just tell her if she has any comments for him, keep them in her head, but you can't stop her from not liking him