She Broke up with me and now she's mad..??

Question

She broke up with me and she's been saying "were over" for the longest time ( like 4 months after we started dating?).. weeks after we broke up, i met this new girl. and everything seems to be going along great! we hung out and found out we have a lot in common-- we really like eachother =] Then my best friend's party came, and my ex was there. But i didnt really mind cuz well.. it was over between me and her, right? So i told my friends about this girl i met and i couldnt help being all happy and excited! later on in the party.. my ex comes up to me and says she wants me back.. i got confused because she was the one who broke up with me .. did she just say that because she felt bad that i met someone new?

and well.. now my ex has a new boyfriend.

Its been a long time since then ... although Just recently, she sent me an angry email saying that she cant believe i cheated on her =S . i dont get it.. she broke up with me then and now she thinks i cheated on her? and she says now she's happy with her new boyfriend and stuff... and she said that when she was with me she's wanted out for months?? i would never cheat on anyone.. EVER! Whats happening? why did she get mad?

honestly, i dont even like her anymore. but i dont want bad terms with people-- i especially dont want anyone thinking im a cheater =\

now, everythings going great and im happy with my current girl but.. whats my ex trying to say? please help me =[

Answer 1

okay... you're obviously very young so, let me help you out here... you're ex is what we refer to as a "psycho ex-girlfriend". Never get back with psycho ex-girlfriends because they are psycho.

She wants you back not because she wants you back but, because she's emotionally unstable and doesnt want to hear about you being happy with someone else. She would rather sabotage your current and future relationships by slinging her hoochie at you than to hear about you finding and liking some other girl.

Answer 2

Sounds like she's related to my Ex hahaha

well you can't fix crazy man...so I just suggest ignoring her and don't worry about it. Best of luck man

Answer 3

She's jealous and she probably just can't find anyone better. we ( girls ) are very sensitive about breakups even if we did it. stay with whoever makes you happy.  ps- you are sooo lucky to find someone else : )

Answer 4

I do not like her either, you have moved on and you should thank your lucky stars that you did so stay away form her and block her emails.

Answer 5

she is just a little jealous ***** thats it forget her!! stay with who u are with now

Answer 6

She sounds like she's crazy. Anyways, she probably broke up with you because she has self esteem issues. When people have self esteem issues, and they date someone who is very nice and caring, they don't want to be with that person because anybody who wants them, must not be worth being with. That is her problem. Another thing, she's obviously jealous that you are happy with a new girl; why? it might be because she had hoped that you would continue to pine and persue her. Which you didnt... and it pisses her off. I don't know why you care if you have good or bad terms, you should focus on your new relationship, before your new gf gets mad that you actually want to be friends with ur psycho ex gf.

Answer 7

Obviously, she wants to feel like the victim in the situation, maybe because she felt bad about breaking up with you.  Most people want to be able to say they ended a relationship because the other person did something wrong...no one wants to be the *** that breaks it off for no reason.  

Answer 8

she needs a shrink shes very confused

Answer 9

hmm, your ex sounds a little manipulative. And in the past, she probably had some control freak issues maybe? I think you should just try as much as possible to cut off all ties with your ex, because people like that are nothin' but trouble,lol. And yeah, it seems you have a legit new relationship now, so enjoy it. :)

Answer 10

okay, 1 gd on u for that new girl i hope u r very happy together

2. i think ur ex is very jealous and when she first dumped u obviously she still loved u, and seeing u with some1 new made her jealous. So i think she decided to get some1 new, to make u jealous (in some sad attempt to get you back) i wouldn't worry about her, i know this is hard but try and forget it, (even if it comes to it, ignore her) she'll get over herself in time!

i hope all goes well with ur new girl!

Answer 11

just ignore her .. she sounds like she just wants attention ..

girls can be weird sometimes =/  

Just concentrate on your new gf and I'm sure ur ex will get bored soon .. =)

Answer 12

your ex is either playing games, like maybe she wanted a drama, her man to fight for her, or the grass is always greener thing, didn't like you til you were gone, now you're a bigger prize.  or maybe she is just confused, what ever it is, get away, leave her be and get on with your life, you will do both you and her a favor, you won't have to put up with the physcotic behavior, and maybe she will learn to not toy with people.

Answer 13

she was probably confused/ teritorial. girls get that way. they think that once they have you, even when you guys end it, your still there property. maybe she has the story balled up. to get the real answer, talk to her. ask her why she thinks you cheated, tell her your version of the story, and if she doesn't believe you than whatever. you know what really happened, your happy now, move on :) this ex sounds a little strange, forget her. you got what you deserve- a nice new girlfirend. hope i helped :)

Answer 14

well u can start by telling her if u're over me u won't send me a n e-mail 4 mons. later telling that u r.tell her to move on and to get a life she's a physico

Answer 15

ok ur x gots some problems the only reasion she wants u back iz probibly to try to p**s the new gurl you like off and make you seem like your not interested in her tell your new gurl not to worry about ur x and that shes just trying to win you back cuz she thinks she owns you cuz you guys went out the problem you have will blow over trust me i know. tell ur x that you will never B hers again and that you guys are through and or finished hope everything works out fine

GOOD LUCK:)

Answer 16

she loves the attention...thats a high maintnence girl...

stay distant dont confront, or talk to her, no contact....hehe shes gonne get sooo jealous, but u give all ur attention to that new girl u like, that seems like it will turn out well. Ur ex, wants u to fall at her feet and beg for her back, thats what she was expecting, but when she relized u actually moved on she was stunned and hurt so she wanted to take it out on u, by acting immature, and being jealous....DONT take any part in that, stay away and treat the new girl like a princess, and things will turn out fantastic. also dont feed ur ex's anger and resentment a clean cut from her is the best.

Answer 17

idk whats going on but if u figure it out let me know cause my bf is kinda having the same problem u can email me at [e-mail] it would be very appreciated