She broke up with me... Is there any chance of getting back together?

Question

My girlfriend recently had us go on a break. We are juniors in college and she says she wants to make her own friends and be independent. But we still hung out on the break, and I would tell her I loved her and lean in for a kiss, so she broke up with me. She also says that she is questioning how she feels about me, like she may be falling out of love. Im completely heartbroken and haven't eaten more than two meals in two weeks. We are still going to have lunch once a week, so I'll at least get to see her. We had been together for three years and I know that I want to spend my life with her... do I have a chance?

Answer 1

Is hard as it is... I say don't do the lunch thing.  I have been there, man, and it just makes it worse.  Best thing you can do is send her some flowers with a simple card.  Tell her you love her and want her to be happy, and will respect her decisions... but either way you will be there waiting.  Then don't try to pretend she doesn't exist; she will come to you if she wants to.

Answer 2

give her time to

think things through...

you are kinda pushin

it with her and if you arent

carefull you could push

completely out of your life

dont try to kiss her unless she tries to kiss you first

Answer 3

it seems to me that this girl is not sure if she has any feelings for you.

She might either be confused herself or that she is eluding you perhaps she likes to be chased ...!

Its prudent to express your love in some catchy way , understanding her taste and moods honestly and "wait" for an answer...instead of getting depressed.

This way you neednt waste time with a woman who doesnt feel for you!

Answer 4

Dude if she's doing this to you drop her NOW. She's gonna end up being a s***k and cheating on you anyways from the way you describe her. Girls go on "breaks" just to sleep around, mark my words.

Answer 5

im going thru exactly the same thing this could be my question because its relevant to my life .wot im doin is still seeing her once a week but i dont txt her i wait 4 her to get in touch with me go out with ur mates she mite get jelouse good look i hope we both get our girls back  

Answer 6

Don't be a chump. She told you she wanted a break...then, when you show affection towards her, she tells you she's falling out of love and questions how she feels about you. What part of "You're toast!" do you NOT understand?

She doesn't want you; the best you could hope for is the occassional sappy hang out when she's between guys that she's now infatuated with. You had your time, now it's passed...cherish the good times, get over it and find a girl that really trips your switch.

Answer 7

Not if you keep pressuring her. She wants independence and the worst thing you can do is to try and keep that from her.... she sounds like she wants a little space as well......keep the lunch thing going and back off on the loving her.