She broke up with me for ?

Question

Being to nice???lol what the h**l lol trust me I can have just about any girl I want being a young(19yr) old black guy that has been in swim suit modeling magz and photos and I just was doin what I was taught treat alll women like queens but I guess women dont like that lol but what do you people think about that???Men or women comment please

Answer 1

She obviously likes bad boys because she doesn't feel worthy of someone as nice as you.

Answer 2

She didn't break up with you for being too nice.  She probably just wanted to spare your feelings so you'd think she's the one with the problem.  Maybe she just found someone else.

Answer 3

yeah i think i might have an idea. A huge turn off for most women is egocentric attitudes, or in other words you sound somewhat "cocky" when you say you can "have any girl you want" and that you are in "swim suit modeling magz." Girls want their men to be more their bodies, not their own. Also, even though you can supposedly have any girl you want, it sounds like you are at least hurt by being dumped otherwise you would not have sought out some advice. I would try to not go around thinkin you can have any girl you want- because that is not true- you can no longer have her. So grow up a little bit, and try to sound a little bit more educated because that is somewhat of a turn off as well- spoken from a black girl.

Answer 4

Well, sometimes when your TOO sweet a girl can feel sort of crowded or maybe like your being a bit clingy? or else their just not used to being treated like that so its completley foreign to them.

dont stress it, you should always treat your girlfriend nicely and give her plenty of respect.

Answer 5

some girls are not used to getting treating like queens, because they had bad past bf that treated them like ****.and thats what they are used to. so when u came along it was alomot too good to be ture kinda thing. or she wants someone esle and she just said that to so she wwouldn't hurt ur feelings.

Answer 6

She's not the one for you, maybe she felt she didn't deserve you or didn't want the commitment. Find a new girl, one that will appreciate you.

Answer 7

Believe it or not, some girls grow up with so much drama in their life that they don't know a good thing when they find it! Tis the reason we have battered womens shelters. Some woman love a man who treats her like c**p and is mean to her.

You've done nothing wrong. You should treat women like a queen, however, just don't smother them.  (Not saying you did or didn't) My boyfriend is very nice and treats me like a queen. I will never let him go.

You will find someone else who will love the way you treat them. She obviously isn't the one for you. Her loss. Move on and find Ms. Right! :) Good Luck!

Answer 8

don't worry.. PLEASE STAY NICE... it's rare and the right girl will appreciate it ;-)

Answer 9

Girls love being treated like there the only one in the room, the thing is don't be too sweet all the time.  We still want to feel normal sometimes.  Being sweet all the time makes people feel like you're not being real and like that we never get to see any other side of you.

Answer 10

Perhaps you worshiped her too much, after a while it's annoying and creepy.

Answer 11

dude the same thing happened to me and she likes me better now cause i traet her like a ***** lol like what the h**l

Answer 12

I think she made a big mistake, but that's what a good number of girls want: bad guys, until they wake up and grow up.  

I wouldn't stop being nice, though, because someone will come along who will appreciate you!