She doesn't think I am listening?

Question

Well sometimes when I talk to my woman she doesn't think I am listening to her but I am, its just hard for me to show emotion and relate to her because our lives are so different but our personalities are perfect for each other.

Also sometimes I am slow to catch on, so she thinks I can be rather daft.

So my question is, how can I show her I was listening?

Answer 1

You should tell her you need her to speak more clearly and explain things better but if you have problems expressing yourself to her you need to understand she may not always understand you so her expressing you not understanding her may be also you the other way around with her not understanding you.  What you should do is talk to her and just explain your feelings.  You can't expect things to work unless you explain yourself to her.

Answer 2

It's not hard to look like your paying attention!  Stop what you're doing and look at her when she speaks to you .