She dreams of cheating?

Question

Howdy y'all I have another question about the realm of dreams I'd like answered...

My girlfriend of a few months and I are really tight. Prior to dating we used to be pretty close friends. I know some may think it's early to be saying this but I really love this girl and she really loves me, every day we make sure to either show this, say this or a combination of the two. It's a very satisfying relationship =)

However, there is something odd about her... She always has really weird dreams and it's not like they are a recent thing like when we just started dating, appearently she's been having them for a while.

In her dreams she is usually confronted by someone we know. An old ex, a coworker of hers, etc... Anyway in these dreams she more or less either gets taken advantage of or she willingly goes along with whats happening. She's been telling me that I've been making a few appearences in these dreams where I either catch her in the act of she comes to me and confesses. When she does the dream me generally forgives her.

She used to get really upset about these dreams when she'd tell me about them but I've calmed her down a good bit by telling her they're only dreams and that I have faith that something of that scale would never take place, which is true, I do.

Now before anyone mentions anything about jealousy I just wanna say I don't think thats the case. She and I have a great relationship and as we used to when we were just friends we have no problem when we see someone of the oposite s*x and express things such as "Woooah! Now that was s**y, didja see him/her?" (though I will addmit she does this more often than I do). Even so, afterwards we josh with each other about how were some much sexier than those we've seen.

Lets see.... Whats my question... I guess she's a bit more worried then I am but I am a little concerned from the point that she sometimes gets really down from these dreams and I hate to see her upset. Can anyone give an explaination? Or perhaps even something we could do to stop these from happening?

Answer 1

Please keep reassuring her to not get down about these dreams. I was told by a dream therapist once that, s*x dreams are nearly never about s*x. They are about emotions, s*x is just something solid and visual to express these emotions in your subconscious mind. The fact that she dreams of you catching her or that she confesses could mean that she is feeling a strong bond and security with you, that you are showing her you love her unconditionally and this is her minds way of expressing it to her. I am not a dream therapist, but please look up the book The Dream Dictionary. It could put her mind at ease.

Answer 2

MMh i wonder what cousing all that may be coz she is too social en at night she just find herself in same thing they are just dreams nothing to worry if its not real,if she believe in God tell her to be reading the bibble  before sleeping en pray they she will sleep like a baby

Answer 3

Some will say it is the subconscious mind , in it`s curiosity, is displaying a persons deep seated thoughts in dreams, the subconscious mind never sleeps and is acting out in a dream state what the person secretly desires in their conscious waking state but refuses to recognize it. Check the link I have supplied, hopefully that will shed some light on your query.

Answer 4

She's gonna cheat on you eventually, pal. Didja understand that?