She gossips to no end i guess i am no exception?

Question

My aunt really hurt me the otherday now i have watched her gossip about other people, who has eviction notes on there doors who the electric man came to see,just dum stuff whos man laying up and isnt paying any bills i mean i just could go on and i guess i am no exception when i am not aroundi mean i thought we were close, i take her where ever she needs to go i let her borrow money. But my house got robbed and when my neighboor said tehy were going to go tell her. i was kind of hurt that she didnt even come to c how me& my boys were doing!! But i am sure she gossiped with her own assumptions on who did it why they did it how could she be that cruel and not even come see about us?? But i am sure she talked about it!!

Answer 1

people love to talk it doesnt mean they dont love you. maybe she is leaving you alone because she knows you have other things going on in your life right now.

Answer 2

sounds like your aunt needs a life. You are kind to her and will be repaid for your kindness. Maybe not by this aunt, but in life. You don't really know what she thought or if she really heard about your misfortune. I say go to her and see if she says anything about it. Tell her what happen and tell her you sure could have used her to have been there for you. Don't be hateful about it. Let it go this time and from now on if she did

really know, you will know what to expect from now on. Sometimes our friends and families don't react as we would expect.  There may have even been a good reason she didn't.