My ex-step sister is 18. When our parents divorced we were all very pleased. She refused to move out with him cause he had a drinking and drug problem. So she eventually got her own place. (Well, rented a room out) She has gone from place to place for the last year, and has finally settled down. I was happy she found a stable place, and a full time job that allows her to have $600 a month to herself. (Her other job she couldn't afford groceries after paying anything)
Well, the last 2-3 months I can tell she is changing, and I hate the person she is becoming. You see, she absolutely hated her dad cause he was a serious alcoholic. Well, now all she does is drink. She drinks none stop. She is always wasted. But whats even worse is that when she is drunk, she attempts to end her life. A couple of her friends caught her and so now on they don't leave her side. She knows she has a problem, but she doesn't help herself.
She lives 3 hours away from me, so I can't do anything. But I want to help her. If I were to tell her that I think she has a problem she would flip out and we'd probably not ever talk again. She is stubborn like that.
Her family (and I mean whole family) has a drinking problem. It just seems to go generation to generation, and every single person loses their family cause of their problem. What can I do to help her?
Do you think I should write her a letter and send it annomously? I really want to help her. But don't want to lose her.
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