She is doing it AGAIN!!! What should I do?

Question

okay...well this is the second time I had to ask a question about this "amazing" friend of mine...

before she invited s and j over to her house all the time and never me but still gives me "i love you jill! you're my bestest friend ever!" which is some serious bs!

i know that j is now better friends because they are in the same school activity so they are together more so i understand that she would invited her more and stuff but still...ONCE this WHOLE summer, and she acts like nothing is wrong...

and i listened to everyone here and talked to her and told her how I felt and all she can say is SORRY its not that i didn't want to hang out with you?

and now i come to a "sore" subject....vacation.

earlier this summer she invited a, s. and j with her...well then she uninvited a but she didn't think to ask me in the first place...even though she always promised i'd go next becuase when i went two years ago...her parents were fighting and stuff....

well...when i found out of course i was a little mad so she said if i go later this summer...i'm taking you...

she is taking s and j, and she acts like NOTHING is wrong and we are best friends....

i don't feel like best friends!!!

what should i do?

Answer 1

honestly, if all she can say is SORRY...

she's not worth your time.

find a new friend.

Answer 2

don't give up right away!

just tell her how u feel again. this time really show her ur upset.

don't worry. things should get better dear.

=]

hope i helped you with ur problem.

Answer 3

This is really mean of her! She is taking advantage and using you as a friend who she just wants at school - sort of a back-up friend. You could either dump this friend and hang out with other people or see how she goes, try to talk to her again, about her PROMISES and how you would never break promises but she obviously will! Invite S and J round your house or go shopping with them and have a break from her

Answer 4

Start hanging out with new people.  You can still be her friend as well, but who she invites or doesn't invite on her vacation shouldn't have the power to tear you up inside.  You are giving her too much influence and control in your life.

Answer 5

Find a better friend.  Real friends care about each other's feelings and not disregard each other.