She is so annoying what do I do?

Question

There is this girl in my class at school and she is sorta bullying me I dunno what to do!

1.She broke my bag then my mum got mad at me

2.I was sitting on the bus with my friend and some other guys who are mates then she sent a text to me saying Why are you sitting with the boys? you are so attracted to them and she sent a really dirty one that I don't wanna say.(about the boys and me)

3.She cries at everything someone says

4.She tells lies about me

I dunno why I don't do anything to her and I'm older than her and taller than and more mature and she is so annoying What do I do

Thanks

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Answer 1

Beat her with a baseball bat.

Answer 2

Kick her to touch,I'm not trying to be nasty but grow up and and take charge.

Answer 3

give her three loud warnings  ( loud enough for the people around you to hear) then hit her with something, you dont want to hurt her you just want to suprise her enough to make her think your not as submissive as she thinks, and yes you will probably get in deep c**p for it but you probably wont have anyone bullying you any more.

or for a less violent way (it takes longer but works the same way) i'm guessing you keep to your self and are probably a pretty quiet person. challange her. when you walk by her dont look down  look her in the eye, dont glare or make faces but dont look down or away, if your in the same room, and you can make a little noise, talk louder and with confidance, she will probably take this as a challange and and will get alot worse but keep at it and she will eventualy view you as an equal and not someone that can be picked on

Answer 4

I used to have to deal with girls like this at school too, who were also younger than me, and this was ten years ago now, but girls don't really change!  I am interested that she is doing this alone - normally bullies come in sets of three.  The ringleader, the chronie, and the quiet one who sticks around with them to save themselves.  

Sounds like she is intimidated by you, and bullies you to make her feel better about herself, or just dislikes something about you - something that is different to her.  Either you are prettier or more popular than her and therefore she is jealous and trying to exert her place, or she thinks you're "weird" because you're different to her.  Often girls will automatically judge other girls (and we do this as grown women), where a girl will look at another girl and say "She thinks she is so cool... but she's not" and the girl they are talking about probably doesn't think that at all.  

The best thing to do (trust me!) is ignore her.  If she does make that difficult, say, "Look, I don't know what your problem is. If you want to get a soda sometime we can talk about it."  She won't know what to do if you're being so cool about it.

If she persists on being nasty, however, you do need to tell someone.

Explain to the dean or a teacher that you are annoyed by this girl, and can they speak to her parents.

Obviously this is a last resort.  In school years we learn who we are, what we stand for, and how we stand up for ourselves.  Fighting never gets us anywhere in the long run, so take the higher ground and don't retaliate.  That, of course, is what will make you cooler than her.

Good luck!

PS - As for the bullies I dealt with: one dropped out of school early,  one got pregnant before she finished her final year, and the quiet one was left without any friends.  Sucks to be them!

Answer 5

Give her a slap or just ignore her. Personally, if she broke my stuff I'd break hers.

Answer 6

ignore 'it' and 'it' will eventually go away

Answer 7

Already you are better than her by not rising to what she is doing - carry on the way you are - she will soon get board!! If she thinks she is getting to you she will do it all the more. When ever she does something just laugh at her and if you are with your mates why she does it get them to laugh at her as well - then she will just feel stupid. Dont go decking her face in just yet or you may end up in a whole lots of trouble with parents and teachers and whats the point in that!!!  

Answer 8

Go and beet her up! loll

Answer 9

d ignore her....shes just seeing how much fun she can have....ur right...she isnt sweet or innocent and only uses tears as a way to deflect the attention away from what she is really like and what she does....everyone feels bad about criticzing someone who is supposedly "sensitive" . Id ignore her, she hasnt got the balls to be a "hard girl" and yet she still tryes to have fun like one (i.e.bullying others).She is a wimp and she wont dare do anything if you just show her what ur made of.Shes pathetic and thats why she gets her kicks secretly, while acting like a little child and thereby denying any responsibility for her actions. I would have never even given this girl my number. I would ignore her, she relys on others to defend her (hence the crying) and is probably very lonely and sad inside. Ignoring her is def the best option.....shell get bored and give up. Its bad I know but when I was13 (ten yrs ago), I used to do what could be called bullying to two girls at my youth group. Nothing used to put us off faster than when out actions had no effect, and when we could see that the victim actually respected themselves,like when they look at you right in the eye steadily. On the other hand, getting ppl upset was our aim and was a red flag to a bull, so dont get upset.

Answer 10

give her a red eyes