She knew i liked him, what do i do?

Question

ok so my so called friend Lori just hooked up with the guy i like again knowing that i liked him. She has done this to me many times before, and the last time she did it we stopped being friends for a while, but she promised me she would never do it again. Well she knew that i liked Kevin for almost 2 months now. But the other day she flirted with him in-front of me, then started dating him that night with me there. Almost the same thing happened with the kid before kevin to. So my questions are:

1. What should i say to her and how should i react?...will fighting with her and yelling just make it worse? and will getting back at her just make me as bad of a person as she is?

2.He is still my friend, we still hang out and i still like him...should i flirt with him or or push him away?...i think he might still like me so do i talk to him about things or just ignore the fact that i like him at all?...should i keep him guessing as to if i do or not?

*Thanks sorry its so long*

Answer 1

lol i hate lori

also once again tell her wat she is doing is wrong

anf flirt with ur friend keven

Answer 2

Next time you like a guy, talk to him right away.  Don't wait.  Don't flirt or whatever.  Be straight.  Most guys like that best.

As for your friend, it's not her fault you didn't move sooner, but sounds like not a very healthy relationship.  I'd move on to other friends.

Answer 3

She's SO not a true friend! I can get why you said SO CALLED FRIEND LORI. How can you even TALK to her??

My advice : Avoid yelling or fighting with her. She knows you like him so she could use that against you since she's dating this guy. Stay cool and AVOID her!

As for Kevin, keep being friends with him! Don't let Lori ruin things for you. Don't make the move yet - he's dating that girl. Pretty soon he'll realize she's not right for him and leave him. THEN you'll get your chance.

MEANWHILE end things with Lori asap.

Answer 4

Just pretend you like someone else and she will go for him and then work on your guy do never tell her which one it really is.

Answer 5

Think twice if she's worth being friend with. Talk to her about how you feel & that's it. Do no enemy with her, but do keep a distance. This shall make her understand what's betrayal has caused her (frienship).

As for the guy, if you really like him, just treat him as friend. Do no flirt but show concern. If he really likes you, he'll make his move.

Answer 6

Just push him away.

Answer 7

Number one: she's done this many times, promised she wouldn't do it again, but she did. This isn't a friend, this is a frenemy.

1) Just confront her about it, don't fight, just confront. Don't do the same thing she did, because that just brings you down to her level.

2) I say keep it pretty simple. Don't go and do extreme flirting, just enough to let him know that you're intrested in him.

Good Luck,

Jordyn.

Answer 8

ok i would love to answer this question cause its fun :) and i like it :)

What should i say to her and how should i react?

Answer: you should tell her to stop doing it and give her a last chance but if she does it again just say i really dont wanna be friends with a person like you.

will fighting with her and yelling just make it worse?

Answer: yes dont bother fighting or yelling at her

and will getting back at her just make me as bad of a person as she is?

Answer: don't, you dont have to get back at her, just let her be the BITC(not gonna type the last letter).

He is still my friend, we still hang out and i still like him...should i flirt with him or or push him away?

Answer:you can try to flirt with him but if he does not like you, just move on i am sure you are very pretty and you can find another boy very easy.

i think he might still like me so do i talk to him about things or just ignore the fact that i like him at all?

Answer: yeah just keep talking to him.

should i keep him guessing as to if i do or not?

Answer: you should not keep him guessing.

Well best of luck!

Answer 9

I would just tell him you like him, see his reaction. If he likes you then go out with him.

As for your "friend" ask her why she keeps doing that. Tell her all the stuff you just told us and it will help

Hope this helps!