She likes me but i just don't like her ?

Question

Ok so this girl(14) likes me(14) she told me.. in fact she loves me to be more precise and i don't like her the same way.. but i don't want to drop it on her hard cause i know how sad and upset she will be and no one wants to do that.. anyway i need some help on how to tell her i don't like her without making her upset.. there's nothing wrong about her like shes ugly or she is annoying.. she's just not my type... Any help would be great full

Answer 1

It is very nice of you to be so gentle. You sound like a young gentleman already. At 14, it may be the first time someone has a crash on you, and that's great, but be prepared to have 10 years of ladies coming and going. Some of them would become good friends and some maybe more than that. All you can do is if you are not interested is tell her you like her and that you want to stay good friends. I think that worked for me many times when I was a teenager.....LOL

Good luck, and remember you are on the right path. A gentleman always wins at the end.

Answer 2

Oh, come on , man, she would not be so concerned.  Toughen up!!

Answer 3

Let her kno nicely, that you just want to be friends :]

Answer 4

If you don't like her don't do it, you will only hurt her more by lying and being in a relationship you two don't wan to be in.

also, you're 14

Answer 5

This is tough bc if she really does love you shes not goin to take it well @ all. The best way to tell her is to be completely honest tell her you 2 can be friends,but you don't see you 2 being a couple a good idea. Girls like a guy whose honest and considerate so just let her down easy.

Answer 6

Just be tact full.

Don't encourage her..

You have to be honest.

Just tell her your not wanting to be more than  just a friend with her.

Most of us have been in her position.

In time she'll get over the rejection..don't feel guilty.