She lost her virginity, or WHAT???

Question

my little cousin is always talking about how her and her boyfriend Chris are always together. She said something about them going to the movies and then they went to his house. She said, "Oh yeah girl I rode something for the first time if you know what I mean"!!

I asked her about it again the next day but she acted as if she didn't know what meant.

Am i trippin or is my little cousin NOT A VIRGIN.

Answer 1

Definitely not a virgin.

sorry.

When you asked her about it, she obviously felt uncomfortable (she explained it discreetly and with humor the first time, hoping you'd just get it), so she covered it up.

Answer 2

ok, woah,

yeah. im not 100% sure,

but about 90%

but i think she did.

you should ask her if she was protected.

Answer 3

yea definitely but dont go ask her 2 many questioins

i dont think u like it if people ask u (not that i mean u lost ur virginity but for example)

Answer 4

Maybe, but she's talking pretty big for someone who just lost their virginity.

The truth is that immediately after the fact, most people are either ashamed or found that others were making too big a deal about it.  She is talking very big, suggesting that she is trying to convince others she is not a virgin but in reality is.

That's not guaranteed, of course.  But I personally doubt she's not a virgin still.  That's not the reaction of someone who has lost their virginity.  That's the reaction of someone trying to convince everyone she lost her virginity.

It wouldn't surprise me.  Modern attitudes toward s*x no longer really value chastity, and in some cases even see it as a detriment.  She may have been made fun of and got tired of it, so she is trying to convince them she did something.

If its really bothering you, ask her straight out.  Its harder to dodge a straight question than it is asking "what did you mean when you said that?"

Its just harder to lie, and people generally show signs beforehand even when they already have a story in mind.  

Answer 5

Umm yeah I'm gonna have to say that she totally had s*x.

Answer 6

How old is she?

&& i think it would be pretty safe to say that shes not. I think you should just come right out and ask her about it. If she admits to not being one DONT freak out at her! just tell her that your always there to talk and you should probally get her some birthhcontrol to.

Answer 7

How old is she?

Maybe she was joking about it but I probably doubt it.

Ask her questions, best thing to do is not get madd.

Tell her she can trust you and you won't tell anyone.

Make it seem like what she did was right so she can tell you.

When she tells u get serious but not that serious like yelling and explain to her that she could have gotten pregnant.

It was her choice so be careful about it.

Ask her all about it but keep it a secret from your parents unless you really need to tell them.

Good luck!