She was playing hard ,Now I do .?

Question

She began the flirting , then played hard to burn my heart and my brain , however I think she was shy too to further go farward.

Now , I am playing it back hard ....She is getting crazy ....I feel that .

Do you think I contuine playing hard ? Really , she hurted me emotionally much in playing hard and being shy with me to talk to me !!

Answer 1

When it comes to matters of the heart it is never a good idea to play games.  like they say, its always fun until someone get's hurt right?  

I do not think she was playing hard to get because she was too shy to have things go further, in my experiance as a woman, it proabably is she isn't sure how in to you she really is. she likes you enough to be your friend and hang out. she knows you want more but she probably isn't so sure she does. i can tell you that when a girl really, really likes a guy she will not play games, because she would not want him to get discouraged in anyway. she wants the guy, not turn the guy away. just remember that.

once you started playing hard to get that probably did drive her a little nutty because she was so use to you persuiting her that once you played her little game, she didn't like it as much. it may not be because she wants to be with you so bad it upset her, its probably because she doesn't want to be the one to be rejected. girls can have just as big of an ego as guys. and really no one likes to be rejected, no one likes to be dumped.  

I would honestly find someone who will not play such games with you.  your worth more than that, find yourself a girl who will persuit you just as bad as you persuit her, find a girl that its 100% clear that she likes you back. i mean it seems you really went out on a limb to tell this one girl how you felt and she did not respect you the way you should have been respected. there are plenty more girls out there.

i hope i understood the problem and was able to shed some light. good luck.

Answer 2

You're doing the right thing. If there's one thing that women wants, its for you to be HARD.

Answer 3

Stop playing games, you either like each other or you dont.