She will wear a white dress at my wedding,help !?

Question

the wife of my brother in law, will wear a white dress at my wedding, i told her that white is only for the bride but she said " don't worry people will see you not me", she bought it from a website, and i saw a pic of her dress and i was upset couse her dress look like mine. i asked again about the color and she refuses even she behaved a lil rude with me,sayind that is not polite to ask her changes her color, im overwhelmed, i was thinking about change my wedding dress but i really love this one, here a pic os her dress:

http://i290.photobucket.com/albums/ll245/arabiyamoon/fwei.jpg

Answer 1

be relaxxx ,u can be unique because of the other accessories,ad ur flower bunch,

Answer 2

This is SO RUDE. However, she is going to look like the HUGEST idiot at your wedding. People are going to be talking about this forever. I think you should have your brother in law speak to her.

Answer 3

This woman has some serious problems & she will be looked at as a laughing stock by wearing the dress she chose to your wedding.  Feel sorry for someone who has to go to this extent to get attention.

If she mentions this to you, tell her she can wear whatever she wants.  But your photographer has been instructed not to include her in any of your photographs.  

Ps.  I just asked my hubby about this.  He said you have every right to demand that this woman not wear the dress she's chosen.  There is a certain amount of decency  & etiquette that this woman has overstepped.  He said if you have to, reach waaaay down deep inside and show this woman what rude really is.

Tell her she can not attend your wedding in that dress.

Answer 4

What a beast

Answer 5

I would forget to send her an invite.

Answer 6

The dresses do indeed look very similar, and I can understand why you are upset.  However, please keep in mind the purpose of the wedding.  You have far more important things to consider than what guests wear.

Answer 7

Tell your soon to be spouse to talk to his brother to talk to his whife, I would hate someone wearin a white dress at my weddin.

Answer 8

Talk to your brother in law,let him talk to her.

Answer 9

shesssss so i dont know. EVIL.

but the most beautiful woman in the affair is still you.

Answer 10

well what a b*tch... put your foot down and tell her she cant attend in white.

and i think im with the first person, give your bridesmaids a heads up- if she shows, get her with red wine!

Answer 11

Holy cow! Clearly, she's jealous for some reason and wants to steal your thunder. I'm totally in agreeance about the accieental wine spill. What a *****!

Answer 12

Nice story,been watching monster in law.

Answer 13

Horrible person! I think you could request her to change her dress colour since you are THE bride, but get your hubby to talk to his brother.

Answer 14

thats really rude. your dress is wayyy prettier=]]

Answer 15

Have your fiance talk to her. She's obviously trying to upset you for some unfathomable reason of her own.