She wont respond, is it over?

Question

I am 19 and I have been having a serious relationship with this girl for about 4 months now. I am totally in love with her and I think she was totally in love with me. She would always tell me that she loves me more than anything else and she is so lucky to be with me. Will 2 weeks she moved back to her home town 3 hours from here and she said she was Sorry for leaving me but missed her friends, but still loves me and wants to have a relationship with me. Up until 5 days ago she says that she loves me and misses me and regrets leaving me. The thing is shhasn'tnt spoken to me in 5 days, she hasn't responded to any calls, voice-mails, or texts. I don't know what to think? Do u think its over?

Answer 1

I dont love you, let me go, let me go.

Answer 2

Sorry...but unless a major  catastrophe has happened...sounds like she found love at home. Chances are she was moving back to be with an ex anyway.

Answer 3

to easy women need there space trust me found out the hard way a bunch of times. just dont keeping "pounding" on the messages and what not. Just let it go and give her that space if she really love you she will get back to you.  

Answer 4

Chill out.

seriously, maybe you should give her some space.

she is probably just busy.

Answer 5

give her the benefit of the doubt but unless she comes up with a really good excuse, like she dropped her phone off a cliff and lost your number, it is probably over. If it is, she has been cowardly in the way she has handled this and you are definitely better off without her.  

Answer 6

I would just show up for a surprise visit and find out in person...good luck!

Answer 7

1- I hate to break it to you, but 4 months is not a "serious" relationship, you might have been building one at that stage, but as you say, it looks like things have changed.

2- ok, unless you have no access to transportation, 3 hours is not the end of the world, you could spend the weekends together.

3- however, in this case her not returning your calls is her way of breaking up with you most likely. many people- especially young people like yourselves avoid confrontation in this manner, ok many older people do also.

don't take it personally and move on. the cure for losing a woman is to get out there and find another.

you should likewise break off contact and thats that- you left word, if she calls and apologizes becasue Dr. Evil secretly kidnapped her to prevent the world from making another Austin Powers movie, then thats a different story, but i would tend to doubt that.

Answer 8

yup literally!!! i love you (dont) let her go! she don't want to hurt your feelings, probably because you will get owned! lmao i bet she was your first g/f noob!

Answer 9

Well, she did say she misses all her friends.  Maybe there's a possibility she's been busy catching up?  I say you wait until she answers and talk about where the two of you stand.  I'd give it about a week and if she doesn't respond at all, stop trying to contact her.  She'll soon realise what she was stupid enough to let go =)

Answer 10

Same thing happened to me..

Me and my (Ex now) Boyfriend were talking and he moved away, And i think he found someone else or something lol cuz he stopped talking to me. Just send her i txt or something like "Hey, look i don't know why your not answering me. But i really need to know or not if this relationship is going to work or not, So plz just answer me."   And if she doesn't you know its over...

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Answer 11

yeah go find someone else

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Answer 12

I think that it might be over, but I don't think you should give up.  The fact that she hasn't responded to anything could mean that she; 1. Doesn't want to talk to you.  2. Wants to talk to you but doesn't know what to say, she's already guilty enough she left you, now shes missed several phone-calls.  or 3.  She's way to overwhelmed to talk to you by all sorts of emotions,

old exes+old friends+loving you, = confusion

If you really love her you should hike it up there and remind her why she loved you in the first place.  If she's really that heartless that she was just leading you along, then you're too good for her anyway.  I'm not just saying that, you're genuinely concerned that its over, by not answering or getting back to you, she's showing that she doesn't care as much as you do, which is how I know that if somethings not wrong, if she does not have a legitimate excuse, you deserve better than her.  

Answer 13

If she loves you as much as you say she does, she would have called you by now.  If she loves you like you say then she would have stayed where you are instead of moving back with her friends.  She missed her friends more then she loved you.  I definitely believe that it is over, sorry to say that, but I would move on with your life and try to forget about her.  She did not love you like she said she did.

Answer 14

give her a little bit more time. or try contacting her through other means.perhaps call their house phone itself.

if she had been telling u she is serious about you and confident enough about it,i dont think she'll just suddenly not talk to you.

Answer 15

Yeah dude, sounds like it's history, time to move on and learn from all of this.