Shes pregnant, should I?

Question

So I asked a question about my girlfriend acting weird around 3-4 days ago(you can look at my profile to read it), and she found out that shes pregnant. We havent told our parents yet and shes really nervous about telling her dad, cause he gets really mad easily and has hit her before. She wants me to be there when she tells him but Im not sure if I want to be. Should I?

Answer 1

i think you should especially if you care for her. and also so you could prove to her parents that your not a coward and can take responsiblity for your actions  

Answer 2

i would be with her when she tells her dad just in case he does hit her again or even worse so you can stop it..telling your parents something about this is very hard..

Jeremy

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Answer 3

You made her pregnant so be there for her!

Answer 4

Yep this is part of growing up! Step up and show your girlfriend as much support as she needs. This is going to be hard for both of you, but just think of the reward at the end! :) Congratulations!  

Answer 5

yea u HAVE to be there for here how could you not be when you already no her daddy is hittin on her..plus jus think of it this way wat if ur not there and sumthin real bad happens B THERE 4 HER..weight ur options b a man boy cuz u got a kid cummin into this world u dont have any otha choice but to step up r become a statistic...do wat u gotta do

                                                                                   good luck

Answer 6

actually - i don't think being there is a good idea. he'll be calling you nasty names and you'll remember them for the rest of your life!  it will give him a better chance to play drama! and if you're there at that moment your relationship with her dad will never be the same after this, and if you're present at that moment, it will make it even more difficult to patch up the harm dome. i think i'd wait outside in the car, and if things get bad, she can come out and you'll be there waiting for her.

but it depends very much on your personality. if you can face the father of your gf calling her a w***e, and remain calm and collected, then ok, but if you'll probably jump on him and beat him to death then STAY OUTSIDE.

actually if my daughter told me that she's pregnant at a young age, i'd prefer that she tells me if she's on her own. having you there will probably make it worse.

for the ones saying that "you got her pregnant now face it.." i'm sorry but it takes 2 to make a baby. it's stupid to give the fault to only one partner!good luck

Answer 7

I would be there for her when she tells her dad to protect her, it'd mean alot to her, if he did freak or something you could get her outta the situation before her or the baby would get hurt.  

Answer 8

Yeah i would be there...tough luck mane.

Answer 9

Dude, you have to you are going to be a dad soon you have to stick together,well your gonna have to go no matter how bad he wants to hurt you you and this girl are gonna be a baby soon i would say the thing to do is get married but thats up to yall!

Answer 10

You should be there. Tell your parents 1st, then get them to go with you to tell her parents. Your going to be a dad soon so, Ya better get use to tough thing going on.

Answer 11

yes you should be there!!! you're going to be a dad soon, you'll deal with problems much worse than an angry parent.

Answer 12

You should be, it's your kid too.

Answer 13

you shold to show your support to her and to show her dad that ur going to be there for her and the baby

Answer 14

let me say this, being a dad of eight kids, three girls, five boys, if my daughters came to me and sayed they was pregant, your butt better be there to, if you was man enough to make the baby then you are man enough to stand up to me and tell me man to man, be proud stand up son, let me know how you do ill be waiting

Answer 15

Tell your parents first, then when you get their support ask them if they can come with you two to tell her parents since her dad can get violent then tell her parents. Realize she might get kicked out and you'll have to help her. I understand why your nervous but she needs you and you both put her in this position.

Answer 16

Well, you thought you were adult enough for s*x.. now be adult enough to face the pregnancy (that I'm sure you know could happen).  

Answer 17

I personally think you should be there. Yes, her father may "go nuts", but unfortunatly you both have to face up to the consequences. By being there for her, it not only shows maturity, but also that you really care and respect your girlfriend- that your not running away  from bad situations.

You might not wanna be there when she tells her father , but it's only fair that you do. It takes two to make a baby, so don't  just leave it to your girlfriend to break the news.

If you really love and respect your girlfriend, you will support her and be there for her.

Answer 18

i think u should be there for her when she tell her dad

as seeing u going to be a dad!

i think he could be ok but if not then that his lose

Congratlion by the way