Shes pregnant what do i do?

Question

i have already asked this but im new to yahoo didnt understand how to do this. we both already have a child a piece which are here most the time. i work 50+ hours every week. she has had complications with s*x since she got pregnant and started bleeding. she always hurts and dont feel good. we are both tired me from work and her being a full time mom which i know is a full time job. we have alot goin on in our lives that is distracting w/ our other kids and normally im not in the mood because of this. she gets mad and doesnt really understand. i still find her attractive and i do love her very much. so what should i do??

Answer 1

I'm 9 weeks prego and going through kinda the same thing....s*x just isn't appealing right now things will get better...you have to understand pregnancy takes a lot out of a women especially in the first and last trimester that's when the baby does most of its growing. We feel less attractive because our bodies are changing and we have no control over whats going on. Just be there for her don't push the s*x if she wants to have s*x she will let you know trust me. There is light at the end of the tunnel around the 12th week is when she enters her second trimester and the morning sickness usually goes and she will start perking back up and the s*x will come back.....hope that helped....wasn't too sure what you were trying to ask.  

Answer 2

I know it is easier said than done, but as well as you expect her to understand that you are tired, you should compromise once in a while and understand al the emotional changes that a woman goes through with pregnancy and show her, not only tell her how much you care for her, if s*x is unsafe because of her health, I am sure that an intimate massage and sensual foreplay is perfectly safe and gratifying as well, that gives you a little private time to enjoy each other. Rent a movie, make some popcorn and cuddle with her to sleep, than won't make you tired, you can do it when the kids are in bed and you can enjoy each other's company. Hopefully this will be helpful

Good Luck and God bless!

Answer 3

what exactly is your question.  she's pregnant, what do you do?

you tell her she's beautiful.

you take her out without the other kids once in a while.

you do OTHER things besides penetration when it comes to s*x.

you just live, love and laugh.  it's not the end of the world...it's pregnancy...you'll make it through this...no joke.

just relax...and breathe.  it's okay :D

Answer 4

My parents tried marriage counseling. Remember her hormones are crazy right now....

Answer 5

there nothing you can do ,just adjust, or get a more organized schedule,or ask family to help , so you guys have time for yourselves

good luck