Shes says she is over me...but why does she ask me things like this?

Question

My GF who I dated for 7 months claims she is over me and says she has no feelings for me.... Yet she still texts me and ims me when i get online... when I hint about maybe getting back together she instantly says no and makes up these excuses.... However, she still loves to ask if I am still seeing that girl I dated after her and wlso asks if I have dated anyone recently or hooked up with anyone etc. Does she still have feelings? We have not seen each other in 4 months... We are going to sit down for a dinner in the next 4 days.... Any ideas on why these questions get asked and if she still has feelings?

Answer 1

Ugh.. Dont go to dinner with her dude.  She's playing head games.  You broke up with her for a reason right?  Move on.  She's just going to give you a big mind "F"

Answer 2

She is Over you, she just needs to see if she could get you back if she really wanted to.

You've been feeding her Ego by continuing to ask if you two can get back together whenever  she talks to you.You've made yourself available to her on her whim.

Stop playing her game!

Move on to someone that wants you for you,  and not for some little game piece.

Know that you are worth more than that!

Answer 3

Ask her over dinner.

Answer 4

sounds like she is trying to be your friend and make sure you are over her also. dont read to much into this you may get hurt  

Answer 5

She still has feelings.  She probably wants to maintain some contact.

Answer 6

Likely she is trying to change you, some girls feel it their duty to "fix" the men they are friends with.

If she starts to go out with you again it may well be a pity date and she will regret it latter. Or she thinks she can influence you to change in some way. She would likely be very happy to hear about you getting along with another girl.

But I dont know her or you so this is a total guess..

Answer 7

She probably doesn't want you..but doesn't want anyone else to have you either.

Answer 8

That's how some women are.  She just likes to know she's still has control over you. She's playing a little mind game.  Leave her alone.  

Answer 9

She might still have feelings...

Maybe she wants to know if you have moved on so that she can feelscomfortable in moving on.

Answer 10

she is just mildiy curious about you and would like to mentaly have you as a back up belive me I have done this u need to not meet her trust me she doesnt want u.