Shocked by British men's choice in women...??

Question

I'm a college student here in the U.S and this summer I did the "studying abroad" like most universities have. There were about 45 students this summer from the business school in my University.

I'm 23 years and I consider myself a good looking girl because I take care of myself. I do not look down on others or races. I'm obvious white, 115 pounds, 5"5" tall, 36 bust. In college i have a lot of guys going after me and my friends.

STUDY ABROAD SUMMER:

This summer the study abroad was in london. We were so excited about being in london and meeting good looking british guys. To our surprise, we found that european men preferred to go after black women. This was shocking and such an eye opener to me and my white girl friends.

We went to pubs, clubs, restaurants. lounges and some other fancy places. It was the same. They bought drinks for them. Thats not to say that white men did not hit on white girls just that seemed to be on equal grounds. Which is good but surprising because this does not usually happen in america.

OUR GROUP:

our group of girls had 3 white girls and 2 African American girls. I'm not racist. Even in school this is our usual circle of friends. We travelled together in Europe and every where else.

WHAT HAPPENED:

Every time we went out, the british white guys would mostly be after the African American girls. My African American girls are also pretty. It's just that it shocked us the white American girls. We thought, we would be the first pick. I guess we are used to the white American guys not appraoching black girls, I thought it would be the same there.

LEARNING EXPERIENCE:

I found that in europe a white girl is not the most wanted girl. I learned tthat white and black girls have equal chances when it comes to men there. We found that there are many white men and black women couples in the U.K as there are black men and white women couples. Unlike in the U.S where there much more blcak men and white women couples compared to white men and black women couples

By the time we went out for the 4th times, we the white girls knew it was fair game for the men for both black and white girls.

I WAS HURT NOT because I'm white but because there were some guy there that i would have liked to have spent some time with but instead they chose to get to know an African America girl. I would have felt the same way had they chosen an other white girl over me

CONCLUSION:

Not all but from what we experienced we learned that european men view women of all races in the same way or view black women in better light than white american men. This happened when we went to France, Ireland, Scotland, Switerland, Italy and Germany.

Bare in mind that there are a lot black british people in the U.K. I have lived with black people for as long as we have.

I had a good time though. I learned a lot about other people and culture.

MY QUESTION:

Why is it different here. In america, i'm a 100% certain that if I were to walk in a place with only white men and I walked in with some African American girls that a white man would appraoch a black woman at least not in public or in front of a white girl.

What makes a white american man different from a white european man?

WE LEARNED THAT RACE DOES NOT SHAPE BEHAVIOR BUT CULTURE DOES.

Answer 1

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Answer 2

I'm 100% certain that conceited blonde haired, blue eyed girls like you aren't every guy's cup of tea.  

White guys wouldn't approach a black girl in front of a white girl??  We're in the year 2008 (almost 2009) hun not in the 1950s! LOL    

Answer 3

Euro men are more open minded and educated than American men.  Also, just because you think you are cute doesn't mean you are.  Do you smell?  That could be it.  I have dated white american men, they are a lil more insecure than what I am used to, even when I try not to be so aggressive, they still seem to be always worried about stuff that doesn't matter.  Black men love white women, period.  You could be fat, ugly, both, on crack. a w***e, have AIDS, no job, no education, no household training, nothing.  Just the fact that you're white will grant you a date with black men, so that says nothing.  White men are starting to open up and black women are starting to be mor receptive to white men.  Black women are up front, we play no games.  We say what we want and go after it.  One white guy told me, he is sick of the games and the S****y behavior.  I'm not letting nobody p**p in my mouth.

Answer 4

Europeans don't live in such a homogeneous country / culture as (most) Americans do. Europeans usually speak more than one language and have exposure to many cultures.

A lot of Americans really don't know anything about the world beyond their borders. Europeans disregard racial stereotypes Americans take as gospel. The stereotyped American blonde is not the girl in 'demand' in 99% of the world. The American girl's idea of beauty does not wash in most of the world.