Should I Break-Up With My Boyfriend?

Question

ok i have this terrible problem!!!!! I've been going out with this guy for about a month now...and i feel like he's more of my friend! Like I'm not IN love with him or anything! i don't know if i should break up with him or just try a little harder! and what makes it really harder is that he gave me a present for my birthday and i don't want to seem like i was a gold digger or something! idk i really need a TON of advice! anything is welcome!

Please Help!

thanks <3

Answer 1

Just because you are not in love with him doesn&#039;t mean you have to break up.  It could take awhile to fall &quot;in love&quot; not just a month.  Plus, it doesn&#039;t hurt to just have fun.

However, if by friend you mean you aren&#039;t physically attracted to him or you feel like there is no chemistry, you should break up with him.  If you aren&#039;t feeling any romantic feelings for him after a month, than it is just about useless and it isn&#039;t fair to him to lead him on.  I once dated a guy that I had no chemistry and thought it would eventually happen...well, I broke up with him 2 and a half months later and nothing had changed.

Answer 2

I say you try to give a chance, and you made find that there more than a friend in him. If you decide though, to break it off, tell him directly, and your reason for it.  

Answer 3

Well.. Break up with him. and return his gift.

Answer 4

well of course hun your not going to fall in Love after a month i mean 30 or 31 days. you only wish it was that easy huh ?? anyways if u havent used all of the present then give it back to him ex. perfume! &amp; explain how you feel!

Answer 5

break up with him.

tell him straight up.

and who said that it takes a month to fall in love.

are you kidding me?

Answer 6

don&#039;t take advice from anyone on here about your relationship

only you can judge your own relationship

follow your heart and use your mind to help you determine what is right for you

because thats better than anyone elses advice can give about your relationship..

good luck

=]

Answer 7

Tell him how you feel....You don&#039;t want to lead him on.  That would be harder on the both of you in the long run.  pray about it.  

Answer 8

break up with him.  

Answer 9

Since you don&#039;t seem to like him, sit down with him and tell him you think you guys should see other people, and then give the gift back, and tell him that you don&#039;t want to be rude and keep it. He&#039;ll either take the gift back, or say you keep.

You don&#039;t seem like you want to be with him, so end it.

Good luck.

Answer 10

hun hes your boyfriend it doesn&#039;t make you a gold digger if he gets you something.

i think your barely giving him a chance.

its only been a month if you think theres something there then stay in the relationship

Answer 11

you&#039;ve only been dating him for a month you can expect to be in love with him..but if he really just feels like a friend then tell him..its not fair to him for you to sit here and date him and let him think you like him alot like that when you only see him as a friend..and who knows who might feel the same way.

Answer 12

just tell him how u really feel

Answer 13

Just break up with him and explain you&#039;d prefer to just be friends.

Answer 14

I&#039;m sorry, but a month is not long enough to truly fall in love with someone.

You are wanting to rush for the &quot;love&quot; thing, when instead you should be sitting back and enjoying his company.

So...enjoy it.  Don&#039;t worry about &quot;love.&quot;  It will come to you when it&#039;s time.  And give this relationship more time, seriously, a month is not a long time at all in relationship standards.