Should I Continue Doing This?...........?

Question

there this guy at my school who always says bad stuff to me and makes fun of me in front of his friends but when we are alone he always starts kissing me and usually does sexual things to me like giving me head....... and iv tried asking why he is so bad in front of his pals to me but he just really shrugs.

should i end things with him or just let him keep acting that way with his friends but do stuff in private with him?

Answer 1

dude. What the fish? Thats some g*y sh*t...

Answer 2

only YOU can answer this.  How does it make you feel.  How does HE make you feel.  

Sounds like he just wants to stay in the closet, and you should respect that.  But the ultimate question is:  do I feel like a good person while in this relationship.  If there are any 'no's', then you should tell him goodbye and move on.

Answer 3

u both r guys...that sounds horrible

Answer 4

He enjoys what he is doing with you, but he treats you badly in front of his friends so that they don't suspect what he's doing.  He's also sending you a message to keep your relationship a secret.

No, you shouldn't be doing this at your age.

More importantly, you shouldn't allow anyone to treat you this way.  He is, in effect, using you.  It's ok to keep your relationship secret, but it's not ok for him to mis-treat you to do it.

Answer 5

You should tell him next time he want to get close to you that unless he stops bullying you in front of his friends you no longer want him to make use of you sexually

You could also say that next time he does bully you in front of his mates you will say to them all that he did not say such things last time he gave you oral !!

You really need to make a stand one way or another or this guy will continue to use you  

Answer 6

End it!

It's for the best!

Answer 7

If you are not happy to be made fun of then I think if he won't listen to you then you better put it to an end.

But why not get head from girls at least if you have to.

Answer 8

if the bl*wjobs are good then the rest is worth putting up with

Answer 9

ur are guys...he most likely is ashamed or fearful of the things u two are doing...so he is hiding from it...it not nice but that's what he needs to do...as for keep on meeting with him that is up to you...maybe stop hanging with him when he is with his friends...enjoy your relationship with him and not question it...u might know it is ok to do what u two do, but he might not...srry  

Answer 10

You should secretly videotape your sexual escapades and then threaten to show them to all his buddies the next time he is acting like a fool!  If he persists... do it.

Answer 11

How old are you and are you a guy?

Answer 12

ask him if he wants to give you head when his mates are there watch him blush