Should I Just Block Her?

Question

I got out of a 2 year old relationship because she had begun to hate me. She is now constantly sending me mails and calls me once in a while, I don't receive her calls though! I just hate that. My B'day is coming in a few days and I don't want her to contact me on that day and spoil my day. Should I just block her or should I ignore her? If I ignore her, there are chances that I might peek into the mail she might send which I don't want to do. What should I do to stop her from contacting me?

Answer 1

If that bothers you - just do it.

Answer 2

why u asking me...

Answer 3

She has given you enough problems to write this...

You should definitely block her.  

Answer 4

You are maintaining this relation upto 2 years and now you want to get rid of it. Try out where the problem is and meet her for the last time and clear everything calmly not make any issue of it.

Answer 5

See turning your eyes away from something does not mean that it does not exist, just that you are choosing not to see it momentarily. This is the way blocking works. The best way I would say, is to steel your mind to an extent that, although you continue to read all her emails, you don't let any of it affect you. You just fail to react to these emails. Only then you know that your victory over the situation is complete.

Answer 6

Block her or tell her that you died. I told some of my ex boyfriends (online) that I died, and they left me alone.  

Answer 7

I agree with blocking her. Do it before she has a chance to bother you anymore. Happy early Birthday :)

Answer 8

Just block her until you want to recieve messages from her again.

Answer 9

I say from the sounds of it I would keep her blocked....If she had begun to hate you then I don't think she even deserves a chance to talk to you...Oh and if she emails you on your B-day then just don;t read it and delete it...If you want to read it but just not on that day then save it for a couple of days and then read it so that you can have the awesome B-day that you truly deserve...Btw hon please do yourself and call up an old friend so that you don't spend your B-day alone..Well unless you want to..I know how hard it is though...I still haven't went out or seen any of my friends either..but i am starting to regret it now...Anyways Best of luck with your ex... Maybe you should just tell her you really don't want to talk to her...She can't do anything about it except accepting and respecting your decision : )

Answer 10

If u r so certain tht u dnt want to receive her calls and all then u should block her,,, why do u need to think...

and yes dnt let her spoil ur day,, so do it as early as possible.

Answer 11

change ur phone no. ....n block her mails...i think she has bothered u enough otherwise u woulnt have asked this question...

bye have a nice day

Answer 12

Well if your finding her a problem then block her. Or you could try replying to her and tell her not to contact you on that day. If I were you I'd just block her.

Answer 13

u should block her..

i wish u a Happy Birthday in advance :)

Answer 14

block her until you can read those e-mails without it spoiling your day.  block her phone calls if you can until you know you can see her # and be like, "blah, not worth my time or emotions."

Good luck! and HAPPY BIRTHDAY!

Answer 15

I think the best to go about that is to call her and just let her know that in a respectful way that you move on and that you would appreciate if she would stop contacting you.Hope luck

Answer 16

best thing that you can do is get a new phone number.  that way she will not have it and she cannot call you anymore!!!

just go to your cell phone store and tell them you need to change numbers. they will gladly assist you.