Should I Keep This Baby?

Question

Ok so yeah,

I'm 16 and I'm pregnant, my mom is gonna FREAK if she finds out, but should I keep the baby anyway?

I reaalllyyyyy dont wanna get fat!

It will so ruin my reputation!

I have plennttyyy of cash so that isnt a problem for raising it

I dont think I could cope with a boy but if i was to keep it i would want a girl,

The father is either some guy I met at the mall, my ex boyfriends friend or my sisters boyfriend

I know this is a toootallyyyy messed up situation but you cant take back the past right?

What should I do?

Answer 1

if your questioning it at all it is not a good idea to keep it. you are not mature enough to raise a child.  

Answer 2

what should you do? try stop lying, this is too obvious to be true

Answer 3

wow

Answer 4

Troll.  Go away.

Answer 5

You are a sorry *** if you don't care for something you brought into the world.

Answer 6

If this is serious..

You have options.

1.) Take responsibility and keep and care for the child.

2.) Adopt the child out.

3.)Abortion(Im totally against it...)

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Things you need to think about:

1.) When was your last period?(count back 14 days to see who you had s*x with)

2.)How to tell your parents.

3.) Will the father co-operate

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Things you can do:(in my words)

1.)Find the daddy

2.) Tell your mommy.

3.)Get off your high horse about reputation- YOUR REP WAS RUINED THE MINUTES YOU STARTED SLEEPING AROUND.

4.)Get resources to insurance and help for teenage mothers.

5.) Take care of your body.

6.) After you choose what to do with this child you creaed- Get on Birth Control!

Answer 7

Wow..

Where should I even start?

I have to say, you are the most self centered, selfish and conceited person I have met.

Your biggest concern is getting fat!? Are you F****ing kidding me!? You're going to abort a baby  because you are afraid of how it will make you look?

Your reputation? Honey, you deserve the reputation of being called a ****. Keep your legs shut and only sleep with people you love. your mom deserves to flip on you. You're lucky your not my child i'll tell you that right now.

So what should you do!? Stop being so d**n selfish for once in your life, think about SOMEONE OTHER THAN YOUR CONCEITED SELF and have the baby that YOU MADE!

Answer 8

I think you should have the baby and give it up for adoption. You seem to be to immature to be a parents. but at the same time s*x isn't something to do when your bored. Its meant to make babies. If your going to have s*x you need a plan for if and when you get pregnant. You need to tell your parents and then get to a OBGYN so the child can be healthy.  

Answer 9

Wow im not sure if to laugh or to feel sorry for you...but good luck...i would suggest you keep it but with your attitude im not sure that is such a good idea!

Answer 10

No, because you're not going to be a good parent. Ugh.

Answer 11

Well to sound as nice as possible.

First of, don't take this as an insult but, you really need to, well, not have s*x with everyone... Especially not your sisters boyfriend...

Anyways, uhm, wear a condom next time.

Buy as for what you should do.

Think about it, tell your friend or parents if you can trust them. What do you want? Do you want the kid? And fro reading above I understand you can take care of him but will you actually be a good mother.

But yeah you're a bit immature, but if you know your gonna be a good mother, go for it.

Good luck.

Answer 12

You wanted to have s*x right? It was your choice to have your fun that you wanted to have with the guy? I was 16 when i got pregnant and 17 when i had my daughter, That thought never crossed my mind to get rid of my baby, My mom wanted to kill me, we didnt get along and still dont, You are the one who chose to have your 5 minutes of fun, And a baby was made out of it, That little one didnt ask for life you gave it to him/her. And my daughter father left me when i was 8 months DEAL WITH IT KEEP YOUR BABY ITS THE ONLY RIGHT THING TO DO, who cares who its by its a human life

Answer 13

wow.

Answer 14

that baby is a living thing

an abortion is just going to kill it

if you got to see that baby, you wouldnt want to kill it

abortion is almost exactly like murder

Answer 15

ok, so. if it where me. i would keep the baby, like, my mom would freak too and probably ground me for 500000 years, but if i got pregnant, i (obviously) had to have had s*x, and wit hsex there is always a risk of getting pregnant (if your a girl) but i would probably have the baby, then, when i was born. test its blood to see who the father was. then i would put it up for adoption. because i could NOT take care of a baby, like, i know some kids our age are like "i can take care of my own problems etc" but i could NOT take care of the baby and i would want it to have a good life despite my choices.

i hope you figure out what to do.

good luck to you, the baby and the father.

Ella E

Answer 16

well, I bet you are lying and just trying to get a rise out of people.. wadda you say 2 that??

Answer 17

Oh my god you're such a r****d.

too bad your mom didn't get rid of you, you s***k.  

Answer 18

that poor child, give it to someone who deserves it!

Answer 19

Are you ready to raise a child? By the looks of it... it wouldnt seem so. By saying you couldnt handle a boy... yeah, i'd say you definitely arent. If you can not accept your child just because of it's gender, you really should give it up for adoption. And you may think you have enough cash, but did you know it costs over 10,000 a year just to have the essentials to raise one? Are you ready for that responsibiliy? This is a LIFELONG committment to another human being. I see so many children in foster care who never get homes for one reason or the next, and their lives are not normal and they dont deserve it. Do not do that to your child. You are now responsible for another life that YOU decided to create. So you are going to have to step it up, be a big girl, and decide what is best for your child. Give it up for adoption. So that he or she will have a normal life.

Answer 20

Just have the baby and give it up to someone who really wants and deserve a kid, you are to immature to be a parent. And please stop having unprotected s*x, if you don't like condoms and you don't care about your health at least use the pill so you don't have to bring another child into the world.

Answer 21

Gaining baby weight isn't what's going to ruin your reputation.  Being a w***e and sleeping around is what will ruin your reputation.  Give the baby up for adoption.  You'd make a horrible mother.

Answer 22

do you think you could handle all the night time feeds, pee, pooh and sick. and thats just the 1st couple weeks!!!

i dont approve of abortion so have it adopted(that might score u brownie points for ur reputation) and GET SOME CONTRACEPTION

Answer 23

ok if you do not want to keep the baby there are plenty of people in the world that want to adopt  

Answer 24

whatever you must do do it. You know your choices already, why come on and upset people with this question. Even I who is pro choice think this question is ridiculous, you can't keep it because you can't get fat because it will ruin your reputation. Seriously why ask this?

Answer 25

maybe you should have spent all your cash on some condoms wow you are one selfish cow who would only keep your baby if it was a girl,you dont wanna get fat,your to worried about your reputation omg girl you really have some growing up to do and when you decide to devote your life to a child instead of thinking about just you then have a baby and give this one up for adoption to someone who will devote there life to that child.

sam 16+4 im with num 3  

Answer 26

You should have thought about the consequences before having random unprotected s*x with random guys. But, now that your pregnant, you can't punish an innocent child for your mistakes. Just because you screwed up doesn't give you the right to end someone's life. Give it up for adoption. And I am sure your reputation is already ruined according to your track record you've listed above. And if you didn't want to get "fat", why run the risk of getting pregnant in the first place. If I were you, I would run straight to the nearest gyn and have yourself tested for STD's also. Too bad this had to happen to an innocent unborn child....Herpes would have been better suited for a person of low standards such as yourself. And if you have plenty of cash, condoms should have fit in your budget. Dumb ***

Answer 27

You are too immature to be a parent. You are making terrible choices. Give the child a chance and give it up for adoption.

Answer 28

You should talk it over with you parents. They won't disown you and throw you out on the streets. And if you consider keeping the baby, you have to think about how the baby would grow up. Would you be able to provide for the child on your own? If not you should put it up for adoption as soon as possible. Like, before it's born would be great.

Answer 29

is ur baby and u cant get rid of him or her...

is a human been ... just like anyone...

u should think before doin s*x or use protection...

i cant decide for u... just think bout...

and ur mom is the bestfriend u can have!

Answer 30

First off quit being the school tramp and quit having s*x then you wouldn't get in these situations if in fact this is real and if this is real you can barely even speak proper english so you definitely do not need to be raising a child.  

Answer 31

Your mom will INITIALLY freak out, but over time, it will be ok... you won't get fat by the way. I have always been able to get all my pregnancy weight off VERY fast so that's not a big deal... and you know, it's funny because our first was/is a boy and I couldn't imagine him having been the girl I wanted. When you have your baby, you don't care at all!! :)