Should I Leave Her On Or Should I Stay?

Question

Well I am 19 and I am a L*****n.O.K I had a baby really young at the age 14.Well I been wuth my girlfriend for two years and I have a problem with something.She has a neice that is also 4 and she raised her since she was 3 months old o.k thats fine because she lives back with her parents now but she comes over every sinle weekend and sometimes she stays all week but the thing is that I feel some type of way because now her brother had another baby and she is not even a month old and we already have her and its not for no reason because neither one of the babys parents are working.Now were suppose to just sit in the house abd take care of their baby while their sitting at home doing nothing!!!!And my girlfriend didn't even discuss taking in the baby with me and I do not think thats right because were in a serious relationship TOGETHER!And another thing is that she barely helps with my daughter so how can she raise her brothers baby and can not even help me with my daughter and my daughters father is not in her life at all and I would like for her to you know help out and its just getting worse....What should I DO!!!!

Answer 1

its all upon your partners call

Answer 2

Your girlfriend is helping her family. You're right she should of talked it over with you first, but why is it ok for you to have a child and not her. Is it because yours is biological? You need to talk with her and get this straightened out. Is it true that her brother/sister are just sitting at home and not looking for a job. Maybe she is taking care of the child so they have more time to look for a job.