Should I Leave Him? But How?

Question

Right now I might be pregnant, by Nain. I want to tell him its over but i just don't know how. He lies to me, he disses me for some girl, right in front of my face, he'll lay down in front of me with her. He'll let his friends call me names that is real rude. He just aint there for me like he has been.

&& now I need him most but this disrespecting aint gettin us no where,

We have been together over a year.

Gettin to 2 years.

HOW TO BREAK UP WITH HIM WITH HIM UNDERSTANDING AND NOT GETTING MAD!?

Answer 1

well, obviously he's not a real boyfriend. i don't think there's a way of breaking up with him and not having him mad. think about it, wouldn't you be mad if someone broke up with you?

this is cliche but just be honest. tell him that YOU do deserve better. no girl should be treated like that especially when you're pregnant.

Answer 2

Sounds like he wants you to breakup with him.

FYI -- you will be on your own with that baby.  He is a jerk and no matter what he says, know that after an initial few dollars, he won't give you any financial support.  

Just stop calling him and stop sleeping with him.  If he calls you, it will probably be a booty call anyway, so just say that you're not in the mood.  Or you're sick.  The key really is to stop sleeping with him.  That is the only reason he is with you. If he's not getting s*x from you, he will stop calling and then you won't have to worry about breaking up.

Good luck.

FYI -- the way you are being treated, the next step is that he will hit you, so do get ris of him