Should I Really Just Forget About It?(answers from guys and girls please!)?

Question

ok, there is this guy that i really like.

and he likes me too.

but he just told me that he messed around with another girl before he went in and had surgery on his leg, and he was acting funny when i texted him but i just figured it was the medicine....

and now he tells me that he feels bad about doing it and i told him that its ok and I'm not mad,

but the more i think about it the more pissed i get!!

but i shouldn't be mad, right???

cuz he's not really my boyfriend..

but i know i have the right to be disappointed! he said i still mean a lot to him, but idk what i should do, tell him im really mad or just try to forget about it like i said we should do.

Answer 1

you should  just forgive and forget what he had done cause it is not his fault

Answer 2

in times like these, i just meditate. and then realize, "hey, whats the point of getting angry?". it doesn't do anything but fulfill selfish desires to lash out. just relax. forgive and forget.

Answer 3

If he's not your "Offical" boy friend.. then no you shouldn't be mad..

The Universe does not revolve around you...  at the time the two of you commit to each other then he shouldn't be messing around with out your aproval first..

Answer 4

forget about it

guys are guys

they dont like it when girls get mad at them and then they move on

dont be too clingy

youre not even dating him

so he can have s*x with ahundred girls and you shouldnt be mad

if he truly liked you

he wouldnt have had s*x with that girl.

Answer 5

i say try to forgive him because its not like you guys are together, but tell him the truth about how you feel because you do have feelings for him and its only natural that you would be upset. i say forgive and forget but also tell him that you are mad/upset with him. talk to him and sort things out. you owe it to yourself.  

Answer 6

the past is the past i know it hurts you, but you guys weren't together right? and if he is sorry let it go if you care for him. maybe he realized he wanted you more.

Answer 7

Well your really not dating, so you can't be to mad.  Hurt and disappointed for sure.  Don't give in, make him work for your love.

Answer 8

Well since you guys weren't exclusive, he's done nothing wrong.  But he also sounds like the bottom of my shoes when he says he likes one girl and fools around with another.  Forgive him and try dating him for awhile.  If he does anything that screams "cheater", kick him to the curb.

Answer 9

If this guy really likes you and feels bad about messing around with other girl (which he really doesn't feel bad about) then you should forget about it.  Its not you guys were together. So don't be mad at him. If he really cares about you he wont sleep with anyone if you get together! good luck! hopefully you guys get together! and are happy!