Should I Remain Friends or Friendly To Her?

Question

My brother's gf is ok, BUT she'll ask me if I want a burger, and I'll say ok, and then she'll never go and get it. Which is ok by me because she insisted upon it.

Another time she asked me what my mother was doing for mother's day and I said she's not working that day, and she would invite my mother over, and it turns out she never did.

Another ocassion, she tried to set me up with one of her loser friends who drinks and abused his ex wife and kids. She told me I deserved him! And we should get married.

She invited me and my family to a movie for the next day. I told her to call me to confirm the time, and she called me to tell me to call up the theatres and find out the time, and amount of pay it was, because she had no internet, oh yeah she does have a phone. I never returned her calls.

How would you describe her, and what is wrong with her?

Is she insincere or a con trying to be nice, in appearance, but fake when it comes to doing actual things????

Answer 1

You know the answer get rid of her you don't need that kind of person in your life. If you don't get rid of her you will wish you listen one day.

Answer 2

".. she'll ask me if I want a burger, and I'll say ok, and then she'll never go and get it. Which is ok by me because she insisted upon getting it."

^ Why is that 'ok' by you?



That right there ended it for me. h**l no you shouldn't remain friends with her.

Answer 3

Wellll, her not following thru with inviting the family over and things like that may mean that she feels awkward herself...maybe she's reading something into your reactions and deducing that you don't really want to hang out with her.  That's a weak explanation, I know, but it's possible...I personally have mentioned inviting someone to dinner...and just never did because they didn't seem to really want to judging by their reaction.  It may not have been that at all, but it was the impression I got and didn't want to put that person on the spot.  

...but if not, I'd say she sounds like a flake, and telling you that you deserve to be with an abusive drunk is kinda hostile.  I'd continue to be polite, but wouldn't trust her and certainly would not count her among my friends.

Answer 4

You are not forced to be her friend are you?

I would avoid people who are insincere.

Life is too short to waste your time with people who make you upset.

There are plenty of others in this world who will value your friendship enough to follow-through on their promises.