Should I Stay Or Leave And Follow My Heart

Question

Should I Stay Or Leave And Follow My Heart

hi, i'm 18 yrs old && my fiance is 19, he is currently living in NY and i am livin in PR(puerto rico), we c each other only twice a month, he comes and c me even though we've a LDR we love each other dearly and care for each other, but we wanna be together cuz we cannt afford being so far away from each other, i dont know, whats best, to get married or live together for a while and then get married!? my mom disagrees about me moving to NY with him, he has a great job, apartment and car, atleast thats a good start! i kno i'll have to get a job, no big deal 4 me, and i also gonna continue my schooling over there, mu mom thinks i'm gonna finish my bachelors degree here, but she doesnt knows that i only plan on studyin 1 semester here just to make her happy and then leave to NY by the end of this yr. idk, should i get married, or we should wait and live together till everything settles down!? if i leave, doent meens im gonna cut communication w/ her, im still gonna b here 4 her and go visit here on holidays! please leave ur cmt or ADVICE!!! GOOD ADVICE!THANKS

Answer 1

Just remember that every decision you make has consequences. Are you ready to take it that far? This is a choice you have to make and your heart isn't always the best decision maker.  

Answer 2

Do not do anything to "make your mother happy" or "to please her" - if you want to go to school in PR then do so - if you want to move to NY and study there, then fine - you're 18, an adult - do what makes you happy - however - a move to NY will be tough for you - I hope your relationship is strong enough to continue happily - if not, you're going to be in NY without your family...all alone...