Should I admit that I'm a virgin, or continue to lie about it to people I know?

Question

My stories keep changing, along with my ex-girlfriend's name. I can't keep track of the lies. Should I just admit it? Most people think I am one already. I lie so much about this.

I don't want to be the biggest loser ever. I'm 26.

Answer 1

so wat if your a virgin? if they think your a loser just cause you've never done it, then they're idiots. don't listen to them.

Answer 2

In reality, it's no one's businesss whether or not you're a virgin.  s*x is a beautiful, wonderful experience, not a competition to be discussed in public.  A classy answer is that a gentleman or lady never tells of his/her exploits.

Answer 3

For one you are not a loser!!! I think that is so sweet that your still a virgin and that there is nothing wrong with being one. I see nothing to be ashamed of so why lie about it? Its who you are so if some people cant except that then you dont need them kind of people in your life anyways. Good luck and no more lies!!! =]

Answer 4

i personally think taht it is admirable to be a virgin still.  only in america and some close countries (social-wise, not geographically) is it bad to be a virgin past 14.  i think the longer you refrain from it, the more it proves you are either a great guy with great morals, or you just dont like it (or something is wrong, but i seriously doubt that you would be asking the world this question if you cant perform) i think it shows that you are sensitive and i personally say, dont lie, tell the truth, and if they make fun of you, be confident in your reasons for your virginity and ignore their jests.

Answer 5

you should b happy that your still a virgin u dont have to lie bout it. if anybody has a problem with that then thee wrong not you :)

Answer 6

Why feel the need to lie about who you are?

When it comes down to it, it's nobody's business but your own.  

Nothing to be ashamed of, so live your life with honesty and integrity.

Answer 7

I am 19, and still a virgin.

I think it's really cool that you are still a virgin at 26.

Besides, if anyone gives you sh*t about being one, it's only because they are jealous. Most people regret their first times, even if they don't admit to it.

It's not what life is about, and those who place loosing their virginity and having senseless loveless s*x as the most important thing, are living empty lives.

Rock on, bro.

Answer 8

Hey,  my sister is a 46 yr old Virgin,   Don't Sweat it!   that is kinda Romantic, that you have waited.......... it's none of their business if you are a virgin or not,   BE PROUD!!!!!

Answer 9

why do people care.. why do you even associate with people who WOULD care?

Dont lie and dont even talk about it. Let people think what they want and you go on living your life. Dont give into what you think you should be or do...

get a backbone and dont worry about everyone else... who cares if your 26, there is nothing wrong with that. Be you and dont lie.

Answer 10

It is nothing to be ashamed of, wait for the person you are going to spend your life with. I would come clean and just tell people you are waiting for the one, or better yet.... tell them its none of their buisness and to mind their own!

Answer 11

i would just say why are you so interested in my s*x life besides i'm not interested in you.

Answer 12

The only lame part about you is that you feel the need to lie about something like that.

I don't see why it's such a need to tell all of your business anyway.

Answer 13

BEING a VIRGIN or NOT, is your personal business, if you want to say so then tell everyone who will listen, if not then keep it to your self, there is nothing wrong with waiting to have the right person to be with , just have fun , and keep that in your little box of secrets in your brain. (MIND)

Answer 14

OK i would like to say that i am not judging you but this did make me laugh.  i will never understand why it is that important to be this hot macho s*x lord amongst guys but just tell them the truth before someone confronts you about it in public and tries to embarrass you. plus it isn't that big of a deal. i still feel guilty about telling everyone at school that i had a dog when i didn't. as lame as that lie was people still tease me about it.(its a small town lol). but just tell the next person that brings it up the truth

Answer 15

Why in the world do you feel a need to answer questions about something as private and personal as your s*x life?

MYOB would be my response to anyone who would ask me something that personal.

Answer 16

Well.... don't keep lying, just start new and tell ppl your a virgin. Don't be ashamed of it :o And you can tell your friends you lied. If they rly were your friends, they'd understand ;]

Answer 17

Please don't lie.  There's no need AND it's clear you're not a good liar anyway.  There is nothing wrong with being a virgin, at ANY age.  It is nobody else's business.  If someone asks, you don't have to answer.  If you want, you can turn their question into a joke against them.

Answer 18

You're deceived and wrong...and have bought into a lie.

In the first place, IN MY OPINION, the word "virgin" should not apply to a man (a virtuous man).

In the second place, lying is something to be ashamed about, especially when its about a desirable condition.

In the third place, learn a martial art and become the best, so there will be no doubt about your manhood, and so that you can whip anyone who challenges you.

In the fourth place, I'd like to get hold of the president of the liberal agenda, tie him up and drag him through the cactus in a 4 x 4.

In the fifth place, I'd like to get hold of liberal producers of movies that have titles like 40 year virgin and do the same as the above.

In the six place, I'd like to meet the liberals giving thumbs down to this post and do exactly the same.

In the seventh place, please read this:

http://www.associatedcontent.com/article...

Answer 19

Go ahead and admit it. Being a virgin is nothing to be ashamed about. Not to mention you can get nice girls instead of S****y ones, unless you're into those kinds then keep on lying. Just keep in mind virgins don't have to worry about STD's and being called male whores.

Answer 20

U R a virgin...that is sooo ok.

Tell them that you have had opportunities but you have passed because when you look back u want to smile not clench your teeth or fists.  

How do u fix the previous lies?  Stop lying now especially if people see right through it.  Tell em, I am busted I am the biggest virgin out here WHAT????

Answer 21

It shouldn't matter that you're a 26 year old virgin, friends won't care, true friends will make fun of you and laugh you with about it.

Cherish them forever, the best friends you can have are the ones you can laugh at, and who can laugh at you.

Answer 22

Dude!!! Its easy. Lying is always the best answer, you can never go wrong with a lie. I lie about everything and I'm living great.

Answer 23

Just admit it. At least they will know your clean! Dont lie because it just makes more and more and more lies and thats stupid to lie about

Answer 24

There's nothing wrong with being a virgin at 26. Admit it.

Although I don't see where it's anyones business but yours.

*The truth is much easier to remember than a lie.

Answer 25

You dont have to actually say anything, its up to you really to admit if you are or not.  There is nothing wrong with being a Virgin.  Its all about your self preservation...

Answer 26

Yeah I can see how hard that would be to tell poeple your still  a virgin at 26. But a lot of girls see that as a good thing, it means your not too horny. So I think you should just admit it becaus eventaully the lie is going to catch up with you. Good Luck!

Answer 27

Don't worry about it.  In my book, it's better to be 60 and a virgin rather than sleeping with everyone.  In fact, I have to congratulate you for not being like everyone else.  Just admit the truth.  Don't lie and be someone you're not, it's pointless.  Be yourself and if people don't like you, then it's there problem.  Would you honestly want to grow older knowing that everyone who had ever "liked" you liked you because they though you had s*x?  Why should that matter?  Tell the truth.

Answer 28

there is nothing wrong with being a virgin. if its such a big deal to tell your friends your a virgin, just say it was a personal choice to stay pure untill  marriage. lying probably wasnt the best idea, but if your friends are really your friends they'll understand.

Answer 29

be truthful. who care if ur a virgin or not. and lies usually will lead to more until the truth comes out.

a wise one once said, one that is untainted is more valuable than the experienced tainted one.

my grandpa is like a frikkin fortune cookie(he said that)

Answer 30

No one thinks your uncool for being a virgin but you dude - seriously no one gives a c**p - so why lie about it? Be honest about it with girls you meet and I'm 100% sure (UNLESS THEY'RE KATHRINE HEIGL) they'll find it cute and be glad to lead you.

Answer 31

dont lie and dont talk about it. avoid the question and do what the twix comertials do.