Should I answer the phone or not, Im scared....?

Question

My ex-bf we just split up I'm very sentimental about this right now..and now he is calling me..and i keep ignoring his calls we still friends but not sure if I'm ready to talk to him..im madly in love with him, but i had to leave him for certain reasons...what should i do should i just answer the phone and be brave???

Answer 1

Dont answer the phone hun

Give yourself some space! :)  

Answer 2

It really depends what the circumstances are but if they are fairly amicable i would brave it and answer the phone and tell him the score or text him and say you feel you need space just now. If he has all his stuff etc and there is no reason to contact you then i guess you have prob said what you need to say and your doing the right thing by giving yourself the breathing space you need but maybe brave it and tell him exactly what the situation is. Avoiding his calls will prob just make you feel worse in the long run. If he still calls persistently after you have asked him not too and that you need time then i would not give him a response in the hope that the calls will stop. If you still love him it sounds like the transition to friends would be too difficult for you right now so i would just concentrate on healing first and take it from there...good luck

Answer 3

do what your heart tell you to do - only you know bestxx

Answer 4

I am guessing you are under 6 years old?

Answer 5

he probably wont stop calling untill you finally answer the phone and talk with im...maybe hes trying to tell you somthing or telling u not to feel bad

btw i still need help...like alot of help please people

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Answer 6

You left him for a reason, you'll still be emotional for along time, it takes time to get over a relationship, if you want to be with him, then answer the phone, if you want to not be with him, because of what he did, still answer it and explain your problems, and work from there!

Good Luck.

Ask Phoebe.

Answer 7

I just broke up with my boyfriend of over 3 years. It's tough but I packed up my car and left. We do talk a little but it's hard so we shouldn't.

You left for a reason- remember that. You can answer the phone but do not let him sweet talk you into getting back together or whatever it is he wants unless you full heartily want that.

Answer 8

It depends on the situation, if you think your friendship can still be salvaged than I advise you to talk to him, maybe not immediatley, but once you've thought about it and what you'd say. It's never good to let things fester, if the friendship can be saved I'd try and work it out, but if you're at a point where you're to heartbroken, and don't think the friendship is worth it I wouldn't answer it. If it's at a point where you never want to see him again, than I don't think it's worth talking to him, because it may just be an upsetting ordeal. But those are your 2 choices. Don't let people persuade you, pick the choice you think is right, healthiest for the friendship, and most importantly, best for your feelings.Hope all works out =)

Mrs. Nick Jonas

Answer 9

Good gawd. If you can't make a simple decision like this on your own, you're not ready to date. DO NOT answer the phone!

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