Should I ask a girl out if her boyfriend moved?

Question

I like this one girl, but I dont know if I should ask her out. Her boyfriend of 5 months just moved far away. I dont know if she wants to have a boyfriend or if she still has the boy in her mind. Should I ask her out, no, or just give it some time. Also homecoming is in a few weeks

Answer 1

hmmm. tough situation. it think you should give some time, because she probably is still hurtin a little. if not that, doont ask her out, cause she might end up cheating on you.

Answer 2

hey you're young, shes young.  she'll forget about him, long distance never works.  go for it!  Ask her to the homecoming!

Answer 3

Time will tell.. Just give it some time.

Answer 4

Ask her out.  It's not like you're proposing marriage, it can't hurt to find out if it will lead anywhere.

Answer 5

No, cuz if her boyfriend out.  He would kick your *** when he gets the chance to come back

Answer 6

If he moved and they haven't broken up, she's off the market.  Don't ask her out while she's still in a relationship, even if it's long distance for the time being you still need to respect it.  

Answer 7

NO...Wait until the Turkey Dump

Answer 8

Do casual talk with her first, see if she's still dating him. Don't make it obvious, just in the middle of a conversation say, "So, how are you and so and so doing lately?" Judge her according to her answer, then you'll know whether or not to go for it.

Answer 9

Well, if her boyfriend just moved away and she was with him for 5 months she's most likely not over him at all. You should start talking to her right now, but just be friends with her and maybe let her know that your there if she needs anything. Then once homecoming becomes closer ask her and take it from there. Just don't rush her into things right away. Good luck though!  

Answer 10

Take it slow and don't ask her out on an official date. Just ask if she wants to go see a movie or do something with you and bring some other people along. If it seems like she is interested than ask her to go alone on another night. Then talk to her about how she feels about her bf and see how it goes from there.

Answer 11

Give it time. but still be a close friend.

She is probably still hurting a little.

When you feel she has moved on, and the time is right

and you will know. then make your move.

but for now be a close friend, and a good shoulder to cry on.

Answer 12

well ask if she will go with you to homecoming now and if she says yea then ask if she will be your girlfriend when you are at homecoming.

Answer 13

She isn't married to him so there's no harm in seeing if she's available. Start a few casual conversations and see where they lead.