I am 36 years old and I have been happily married for 11 years and I have 2 young daughters. My wife is a wonderful and caring person and I love her with all of my heart. My problem is a financial one. I have earned over 125k a year for the past 15 years and my wife has never had a job. We have been totally broke for the past 2 years and I don't see any light at the end of the tunnel. My wife has tried looking for a job to help but hasn't been able to find one. This year, we have lost our house, our cars and all of our toys and I can't figure out why. I have been making 10K a month and we are living paycheck to paycheck. I work 80+ hours a week so I know it is not me spending all of the money. And I know my wife has no hidden vices that would swallow up all of our money. I gave up this year and stopped paying all of our bills and I still have no money left over after every paycheck. I have tried to find out where it all goes but have come up empty. I often wonder if she has a secret bank account with a hidden stash, but I havn't found one. I am to the point that I want to give it all up and take a lower paying position with less hours so I can enjoy my life. Lately I think that being single again would make me much happier. What should I do?
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