I had a roommate in college that I lived with for a three semesters. We met during my freshman year, got really close and decided to room together, which we did until she graduated. She's even the one who set me up with my fiance! The problem is, we didn't really stay in touch. We talked once in a great while and only saw each other at semi-formals of the fraternity our fiances are in. Recently I've tried to rekindle the friendship, and we made plans to get together this summer. I was going to ask her to be in my wedding party when she came out to visit. Unfortunately, she cancelled at the last minute. It's now a couple months later and she just got engaged. I had to find out through facebook. It apparently didn't warrent a phone call to me. I would really like to rekindle our friendship and I though asking her to be a bridesmaid would be a good way to do that, but maybe she doesn't want it as much as I do. I'd still like to ask her, but I don't want to put her in an uncomfortable situation. What should I do?
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