Should I ask him?

Question

4 months ago, I met this guy, and we became friends, and we said that we would go to the Paramore concert together (which is this friday). At one point, we lost touch, and people started telling me that hes a 'snob' now, and I kind of believe them because for the past few months, he hasnt talked to me at all. I chatted with him yesterday, but I felt that it would be too awkward to ask him about the concert. He probably doesnt even rememeber... Should I still ask him anyway even if we're not close anymore? If so, how should I say it?

Thanks for your help! :)

Answer 1

Eh... if it was me, I probably wouldn't The guy does sound like a snob to me. Go with someone else! That's what I would do. Chances are he either already has plans, he's going with other people, or he simply forgot that you two had plans to go and your just gonna make a fool of yourself if you ask him about it. That's what I think. Hope I helped! =)

Answer 2

Hi Lisie,

It sounds to me like you're still uncertain about whether you still have anything going with this guy and you want a definite yes, or no.

So, call him and remind him about the concert. If he gives you some excuse, then you'll know exactly where you stand with him. Then you can move on and you'll know he's no longer interested.  

Answer 3

well, if he is a snob then u probly should just go with one of your other good friends and have fun with them.  dont worry about him, hes probly not worth it :]

Answer 4

This is really something that you have to judge. If you feel comfortable still asking him go for it, the least he can say is no. But if you don't, maybe ask a friend to go. No matter what have fun at the concert.