My boyfriend and I have been dating for about one month. I'm 18 and he's 20. I've never been in serious trouble (like with the cops).. and I've done really well in school and have been pretty responsible for the most part. I have a job and go to school full time (I take 5 classes). I feel as though I should be treated like the adult that I am.
I want to sleep over my boyfriend's house because he lives an hour away - and it's a waste to just go there for the day if I'm going so far. I've had to make up tiny lies to my parents about where I've been sleeping at - and it's getting really annoying and stressful - I just want to tell them the truth. I'm not sure if they'll let me or not but I feel like I deserve to do that. I'm an adult and I work hard. I want to move out but I don't think I could work enough while taking 5 college classes.
My mom recently told me that she's proud of me for all the hard work I've been doing and how she trusts me, etc. Do you think it'd be too much of me to ask if I could sleep over my boyfriend's house? They let me sleep at my g*y friend's dorm in Philadelphia, why not my boyfriend's house, you know? They know I go to parties there.
I'm just really scared to ask.. should I? and if so, what should I say?
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