Should I ask or wait for him?

Question

I work in the medical field, so does he. When i first started seeing him, i thought he was cute and looked familiar. Finally I asked him if we went to school together, he says yes. that night i go home and look for him on myspace, well i find him and realize he is on both of my pages friends list. then i go back through his old comments, and see some that i had left. then i realize the last time i had talked to him, i had asked him the same question... lol.. so the next time i seen him, i tell him i feel like such a dork..

before all of this when i would see him, we would maybe exchange half smiles.. since then, i get a big smile and we do the whole pleasant "hi how are you" talk. i've had my eye on him since i first seen him (both times.. lol) i am just wondering if i should ask him if he would like to hang out or whatever, or if it would even been a good idea because i could see him 12 times a week (2x-4x a day) thanks in advance!!

Answer 1

If you want to then do it...ask.

Answer 2

i think go for it!

Answer 3

just ask him out for lunch, dinner or even breakfast. and maybe you two can have a break together, chat about your old school life etc and ask about your current life etc.

a slow approach can be the best solution.

good luck!!

Answer 4

ask him.  

Answer 5

because you work with him you need to make sure he is worth risking your job because if it doesn't work out one of you will be compelled to leave your job so that you don't see him so much. so if you think you can still be friends if it doesn't work out then go for it.

Answer 6

If you are ready and all good, go for it. Make sure that he is truly a good choice for you. Also ask yourself if you are good enough for him.  

Answer 7

Somebody is in Lauhve! Oh go for it you b***h! What are you waiting for?!

Answer 8

you should say it in a s**y manner or ask normally cuz he probably will be waiting 4 u to do this but if u do it first he will think of you as headstrong

Answer 9

If you have your eye on him, there's nothing wrong with asking him to hang.

You don't know how he feels about you; if he is just being friendly, for example. So you might be waiting a long time for something that he hasn't even thought about.