Should I attend my brother-in-laws wedding?

Question

of late I have lost my husband, my in -laws do not inform me about any family happenings as i chose to stay with my parents. My brother -in-law is getting married soon and the news i came to know from someone else. should i congratulate him as i know for namesake he will surely invite me

Answer 1

Yes. if any one of them call you.

Answer 2

Your in-laws are not interested ur participation  in their family gatherings. As you came to know from other source honestly you should congratulate him to be good on your part. He should not remember you in hitlist who didn't wish him. But Your B-I-L didn't invite u b4. so after ur regards for namesake he'll call. You should not go to such place and get embarrassed if some thing goes wrong. Tell "I love to come and attend but...." something.

Answer 3

your brother-in-law never cared to invite u to his marriage.if u did really get this news from someone else rather than ur brother,dont attend it.something which u may regret may happen.

But looking frm the other side,he is ur brother in law.if he is really close to u and u trust that he will invite u,attend his marriage.

Answer 4

Well sure, "if he or your in-laws invites you"... otherwise don't

Answer 5

If you are invited, do go and congradulate him, If not, since it seems they don't care about you, continue with your life.

Answer 6

If he invites you yes I would go. But if he doesn't I would not go. I would congratulate him and leave it at that. If your in-laws don't inform you of family happenings then tell them you would like to know when the next gathering is so you can visit.  

Answer 7

Yes..surely go if ur brother-in-law invites you!

Answer 8

They invite you  or may be not.it's o k.but have big heart for your brother in law wish him happy marrigae life.always see positive in people,even they don't.sorry for your lost.very sad.

Answer 9

If u want to build good relations with them , yes you should talk first

Else dont give a d**n , as they didnt care to call u or even inform u  

Answer 10

I say if you want to go by all means go.You should be invited as you are a part of that family whether they tell you about family functions or not.It has been a great loss to you to lose your husband.By all means congratulate your brother-in-law.To stay with you parents is an honor, as you can help them.God Bless you.

Answer 11

if they invite you,, you shuld go there

afterall u hav some relation ship with them,, and if they are nice to you and treat you as their daughter u shuld go hapily and if they are not gud with u go there for formality..................................

dont give any reason to them to critisize you......