Should I avoid ever dating so that I never have to get married?

Question

I would not mind getting a girlfriend, but I am pretty sure that I never want to get married and I don't think I want kids.

I don't see the point of marriage. You waste thousands of dollars on a ceremony and a honeymoon and most married people end up divorced, anyway. I also would feel a little awkwardness knowing that everyone knows that I am having s*x if I was married. I would have s*x with my girlfriend anyhow, but people might think that since I am not married, I am not having s*x. It is one of my smokescreens.

I don't want kids because they are noisy and because women aren't as hot after they give birth as before (unless they are some anoerexic celebrity); they have stretchmarks and gain weight. I don't want to lose sleep every night trying to quiet a crying baby and kids are expensive and I would rather spend money on myself. It is my life.

Answer 1

get a girlfriend with the same views as you

Answer 2

Fair enough if you don't want to get married, that doesn't mean you can't date - just don't lead the women on to think you do.

".. women aren't as hot after they give birth as before (unless they are some anoerexic celebrity); they have stretchmarks and gain weight."

But I think that's the most disrespectful, shallow piece I have ever read in my entire life. You must be a useless friend to any female friends you have..

Answer 3

There's plenty of women out there just like yourself, I'm sure you find one sooner or later! There's nothing awkward about s*x, it comes naturally... unless there's something awkward about you?

Answer 4

You could date, but never propose.

Answer 5

If your dating someone, people will think you are having s*x with that person.  Possibly you just need to grow up a little bit.  Stop worrying what everyone else thinks about you.  No one will think less of you because you are having s*x.  s*x is the most natural thing on this earth.

Answer 6

You are obviously very, very young and immature.  I hope you change some of your messed up ideas on life as you grow up.

I'm happily married and I sure don't care that people know I'm having s*x with my husband.  And I wouldn't consider the honeymoon a "waste of money," it's a vacation.  Do you ever plan to take a vacation?

Also if you've dated your girlfriend for a while people are going to assume you're having s*x.  I know that because my husband and I were NOT having s*x when we were dating, but people always assumed we were.

But to answer your question, yes you should avoid dating.  There is no girl on this planet I'd wish you upon.

Answer 7

ok its your choice wether or not you get married - but your second reason on why you dont want kids - because women arent that hot - that is shallow and hoenstly you arent mature enough to make any decisions if your going to think like that with women - just go be alone for the rest of your life honestly.....

Answer 8

sounds like you dont want responsibility

Answer 9

awwww dont advoid her!!! if she really loves you she wont mind about not getting married, she may be a little upset.

and wow its what happens to women after they give birth. they can work out after they have their child.

Answer 10

If all you think of is how hot the person you date is, I wouldn't give you the time of day. There's a lot more to a person than her appearance, even if she is hot. You don't sound like you could get into any commited relationship, much less marriage. I hope you don't have kids, for their sake.

Answer 11

i don't know any girl that would want to date you.

Try Prostitutes

Answer 12

I guess the first thing to ask would be how old are you? It just seems like everything you are saying is a good bit immature. If you are older then I am sorry for you that you have had some cruel experience that makes you so cynical

Answer 13

Just date. Nobody says you have to get married and have kids, I don't want either. However, your comment about women not being hot after they give birth is really rude and superficial, so you might have trouble finding a girlfriend if that's your personality.

Answer 14

maybe ylou should date someone with the same opinion go to a dating site and put that on your profile

Answer 15

ok you're a jerk and you don't deserve to be married. "women aren't hot after they have kids". omfg!