Should I be Upset or am I Over Reacting

Question

A couple days ago I was at barnes and nobel and couple people were talking about breaking dawn, and a woman wanted to read it to her nine year old and so earlier a friend had told me that bella got pregnant (happens in first 100 pages) and so i thought the mom mihgt want to know before giving it to her nine year old, so I told it to her and the employ working at the store overheard and got 'mad' at me and told me to "get out" and so i hid behind the shelf and I heard him fuming about how i had given out the ending of the book. I know I shouldnt have revealed anything and I'm sorry about that, but what he siad really upset me, am I just being sensitive or did I get what I deserved? It's been about 3 days and the whole thing is just making me depressed, and my dad keeps harping on me about, and I just want to cry. All i wanted to do was help...

Answer 1

you should have kept your mouth shut and minded your own business.

Answer 2

yeah you shouldn't of cared about like the mom and the daughter, its their life not yours, and also who cares about barnes and nobel staff, honestly like if you go there like everyday then that would be a problem, just dont go there go to borders! hhaha no well just dont worry about it.

Answer 3

If you haven't heard this saying, it's time you did.

Don't sweat the small stuff.

This whole incident is small stuff.  Blow it off.  Your heart was in the right place, your intentions were good, you didn't hurt anyone, so put it behind you.

The employee over reacted, IMHO. He sounds unprofessional to me.  

If you enjoy going to that store, try to steer clear of this guy.

If he bothers you again, don't get into an argument with him.  Go to the front of the store and ask for the manager.  Tell him the guy has bothered you before, acted unprofessionally and you want him to leave you alone.

You could also call the manager anonymously, and complain about this guy.

Personally, I'd just forget about it.  I'd continue going to the store, if I felt like it.  It's just not worth worry about.  It's small stuff, when you look at the big picture, isn't it?

You sound like a sensitive person, to be so concerned with this incident.  That's a wonderful quality, just don't beat yourself up over the little things.